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ElaineI Thu 04-Sept-25 16:26:39

I know M&S has had huge problems with online sales etc but OMG it is still not working well at all. Also the range of goods is not what I am used to but maybe I'm behind the times. The range in all areas seems bizarre. DGD age 8 needs new knickers - only 1 set and not what she would wear. We need a pedestal mat for bathroom - only 1 comes up and not rubber backed which it needs to be to prevent slipping. DD shops in Primark so perhaps I should just go there. Does anyone else find the quality has deteriorated and the website is not working well?

Oreo Mon 15-Sept-25 09:52:14

GrannyGravy13

I can always find something I like in M & S.

Their boots are always on trend and so comfortable.

Shows we are all so different doesn’t it, I can’t wear any shoes or boots now from M&S and find them really uncomfortable.
Now shop for boots in Hotter.

Deedaa Sun 14-Sept-25 23:49:08

I look in Marks from time to time, mainly because I still get 20% discount. I recently had to throw out an old M&S T shirt style nightdress because the cotton was wearing into holes. M&S was the obvious choice for a replacement but they had mostly pyjamas, which I hate. how ever I found one nightdress without one of their stupid sayings on the front. It was shorter than my original one but not too bad. Two washes later it had shrunk up so far that I wouldn't dare bend over in it, and I replaced it with one from Sainsbury. I did find a rather nice perfume though, orange flower and amber. It reminded me of a Fragonard one I used to use, and was only £10.

Caleo Sun 14-Sept-25 11:24:26

Babs03

kircubbin2000

The knickers are so thin I have started wearing 2 pairs.

I like their cotton big knickers which are comfy and that is all I care about these days.
They aren’t particularly thin but did buy some synthetic material big knickers by mistake that are comfy but sheer so these I would describe as thin.

Sometimes we have to pee quicker

So we need a substantial knicker

Marks do please take note,

Get your customers' vote

And make all your knickers much thicker

shery Sat 13-Sept-25 17:44:12

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woodenspoon Sat 13-Sept-25 15:04:48

Happy with homewares from M&S. my DH likes the classic type mens clothes from there but not the skinny trousers. I buy good basics from them like slippers, short and long sleeve t shirts, linen trousers and tops, underwear, nightwear, some shoes. I don’t like the dresses at all. Usually too long, fiddly and flouncy styles.

Kids clothes also very good, really good quality. I buy lots for my grandchildren in the sale.

I also like the fresh floral fragrances they do. I like M& S.

cc Sat 13-Sept-25 14:55:55

MadameFeuveral

No one uses pedestal mats anymore - people generally find them rather disgusting! If M&S stocked them, they’d never sell them.

Personally I don't use them, but John Lewis still sell them so they obviously do sell.

Babs03 Thu 11-Sept-25 13:57:16

kircubbin2000

The knickers are so thin I have started wearing 2 pairs.

I like their cotton big knickers which are comfy and that is all I care about these days.
They aren’t particularly thin but did buy some synthetic material big knickers by mistake that are comfy but sheer so these I would describe as thin.

SynchroSwimmer Thu 11-Sept-25 09:53:51

Fiercely loyal to M&S, so much so that my DM has always scoffed at me - but….

Visiting multiple stores….Swindon, Leicester, London Colney….the staff of the floor don’t seem to wear identifying uniform any longer (jeans and T shirts?) and I invariably encounter them chatting in groups of 2 or 3, blocking the aisles and the items I’m interested in.

Never any stocks in larger sizes of items I specifically want to purchase.

I always go with a list and mostly come away empty handed.

(For context, very loyal shareholder for 50 years, but only because my Ddad rewarded me with £200 at age 18 - as a bonus for promising not to be a smoker). I spentt my childhood imagining how many Sindy dolls I would be able to “buy” at the time 😂….

Erica23 Thu 11-Sept-25 09:36:24

So fed up with M and S at the moment. As I wrote earlier I’d ordered two duvets, only to be told after I’d paid that they were oos.
They’re still available on their website a week later so I reordered. You’ve guessed it same thing happened again. I give up !

Bambino Thu 11-Sept-25 09:16:34

There's a sweeping statement if ever I saw one!

kircubbin2000 Thu 11-Sept-25 08:41:41

The knickers are so thin I have started wearing 2 pairs.

Homestead62 Thu 11-Sept-25 03:42:45

The last underwear I bought from M&S was sadly, awful. The bra fit is way off and I constantly have to use bra extenders. Pants are just cheap material, wear out quickly and as a previous poster said no cotton pants to be had. My husband had an issue with his credit card and that was a nightmare to sort. Their App stopped working on his phone and he could not access his account to pay his bill. Had to call customer service twice, the final call being over TWO HOURS long! They have had to put him back on to paper statements. When I'm in M&S I still pay by cash and will continue to do so until they get this sorted. We do still want to support them and the staff.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 10-Sept-25 21:13:36

I can always find something I like in M & S.

Their boots are always on trend and so comfortable.

Bluesmum Wed 10-Sept-25 21:01:26

I recently ordered two knitted short sleeve tops from m and s, for collection at my local store. Two days later got an email saying order was delayed, no further info. Phoned them two days later for update, told goods not available in my choice of size colour and refund would be processed. Two days later, I got confirmation that a duplicate order had been processed, free of charge and was ready for collection! Meantime, I had received a full refund! I duly collected it and a member of staff said this was not unusual now as compensation for any inconvenience!

Jess20 Wed 10-Sept-25 20:48:09

What M&S fails to sell is 100%cotton underwear. Last knickers I bought there had awful elastic which rubbed. Bras have elastic and metal fastening which I find very irritating to wear. I have to buy from specialized eczema sites now.

Pomgirl Wed 10-Sept-25 20:45:23

I used to shop a lot in M and S..but to be honest..they are very expensive..I shop in Matalan now..and tbh..they are very good quality.

kittylester Wed 10-Sept-25 19:29:31

AmberGran

I have bought things in Sainsbury this year for the first time ever. Better quality than before and I can find dresses and trousers long enough.

I must be the only one on GN who loves M&S these days ☹️ Except for the underwear, but that's pretty dire everywhere and I've always had a problem with finding bras that fit. The only thing I've had a problem with in M&S was a white dress last year that was constantly out of stock but did eventually come back in.

No you're not. I still have an M&S habit and my daughters even buy there.

Diplomat Wed 10-Sept-25 19:25:29

Also just looking at M&S website, the 'older' model has disappeared. They are now very much aiming for a younger audience. I think they will regret doing that.

WithNobsOnIt Wed 10-Sept-25 17:56:20

Unfortunately, l think good old Marks and Spencer has been. dying a slow death for many years.

Besides some of their food. I think the quality of a lot of their products in really overpriced and that not great. Same for John Lewis.

Many companies now seem to be doing everything on the cheap. With poor computer systems. A admin and stock control.

With Mars and Spencer l think it's a case of

Fings Ain't What They Used To Be

RIP

Diplomat Wed 10-Sept-25 17:32:30

Definitely noticed deterioration in quality. Was in store recently and there was plenty of choice of the larger sizes but medium for men and 10/12 for women sadly lacking. Went to order ballet slippers for my mum today, a style we have both bought for years and they are no longer part of their range. Ballet slippers available didn't even come in shoe sizes but S, M, L ,XL!

WelshPoppy Wed 10-Sept-25 17:32:04

I buy little from M&S these days, apart from bras and shapewear pants. The pants i buy because I have a stoma and they are comfortable and supportive. The bras, too, are the most comfortable I have found, but they've stopped making them in cream. I don't always want to wear white under pastel tops as I think they look a bit stark and cream blended better. For lots of clothes I've started ordering from Shein and have had lots of comments about how nice the clothes look.

Onlymedea Wed 10-Sept-25 17:00:32

Maggieanne

I haven't read all of this thread but a big thumbs up for Tesco and Sainsbury clothing. Good selection of childrens clothes and nice quality too, ladies underwear is good although Sainsbury seem to have gone for cheaper quality lately.

I bought some new pyjamas in Sainsbury's a few weeks ago. I liked that they had pockets and no silly pictures or slogans and both sets have washed beautifully. Very pleased with them.

CariadAgain Wed 10-Sept-25 15:43:25

Not so much bothered about other things - but if only they did suitable bras.

When I was younger I used to wear plunge bras and they were always underwired and one of the main aims was for them to look okay even "uncovered" so to say. I don't need padded bras....I've never needed padded bras and that's most of the stock straight out of consideration (as such a high percentage of them are padded).

Is it too much to ask for black, fairly basic style, unpadded and low-cut (ie I still undo the same number of buttons as usual on blouses and don't see why I should do up an extra one or two to what I've decided on just because I don't buy underwired ones any longer - too uncomfortable). I have to only do up a minimum number of buttons for decency and I have to wear v-neck (rather than round neck) jumpers - because I'm short-necked and it does not look good to see only pretty much a few inches of short neck above the neckline on clothes (and hence the minimum number of buttons done up and necklines are v-neck).

Big boobs/short neck does mean = neckline mustn't be too high up = bras have to be pretty plunge and a minimum thickness of material holding the two cups together in the middle.

Dear M & S - I don't WANT granny bras - even though I'm old enough to be a gran even by my standards (the two children would have been in my 30's and then I'd hope they wouldn't have any in turn until their 30's).

FranP Wed 10-Sept-25 15:42:38

keepingquiet

Look on-line! That's what I got when I last went looking for something in M&S.

I don't do on-line shopping because I could see what was coming down the line a decade ago.

I agree with whoever said Next was better- so I'm shouting out for Next who will check if something you want is in stock if your size/colour isn't on the rail.

Also a bigger sgout out to charity shops- got a beautiful cashmere and wool Windsmoor winter coat a few weeks ago, beautiful silk lining looked like it had never been worn. £8! Win win ker-chiiiing!

Next have brilliant order in service. No trouble to get and take back if not right.

Keekaboo Wed 10-Sept-25 15:41:07

I use M&S for click and collect with absolutely no problem at all. In fact I’ve just been informed by email my parcel is ready to collect two days before it was due. Great service.

Glad they are back functioning, here anyway.