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not understanding what's being said on phone...

(54 Posts)
petra Tue 16-Sept-25 12:09:05

Would it be possible for you to contact them on line.
You will get a drop down box to send your massage.
If this is a fluff 😉 use the speak text on your device.

boheminan Tue 16-Sept-25 12:02:27

...but I tried that! (and they just shout)

Astitchintime Tue 16-Sept-25 11:57:00

Just say “can you please speak much slower as I’m having trouble catching everything you’re saying”………nothing racist in that.

boheminan Tue 16-Sept-25 11:31:03

This morning I've had two dealings using my BT landline.

Firstly. A call from a woman who was talking so fast that I couldn't catch what she was saying as she had a very strong foreign accent. I asked her to slow down but she just started shouting at me, I panicked and put the phone down. I looked up the number she was calling from and found it was my GP surgery. Second call was to BT engineer and the same thing happened, I couldn't understand what he was saying and after him shouting at me, panicked and put the phone down.

I feel so anxious about this as I don't want anyone to think that my response is racist but I get so panicked so often now that more and more conversations over the phone are being cut off by me because I cannot understand what's being said.

Does anyone else have this problem? and if so, how do you cope with it?