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Cash please..

(86 Posts)
twiglet77 Tue 03-Feb-26 19:15:46

I’m happy to offer to pay cash if I’ve enough in the house, but being asked in advance to pay cash would bother me.

SueDonim Tue 03-Feb-26 19:12:45

I can’t think of the last time I was asked for cash to pay for anything. Given that most transactions nowadays are electronic, anyone wanting cash should give advance warning and yes, I’d be wondering why they suddenly wanted cash.

Patsy70 Tue 03-Feb-26 18:43:13

You definitely were not being unreasonable at all, ferry, and I think you responded in the exact way I would have done in your position. He should have contacted you earlier to say he was having problems with the van. Apart from the delay and inconvenience of having moved things out of the bathroom, hopefully the work will be to your satisfaction, and the bank transfer easier than paying by cash.

pably15 Tue 03-Feb-26 18:10:08

same as gran22boys said...

Jaxjacky Tue 03-Feb-26 17:56:03

I have no problem paying in cash to a regular, trusted tradesman, we have three cash points in the village five minutes away. Some notice is required though as I usually have less than £100 in cash on me, although I use it regularly.

Elusivebutterfly Tue 03-Feb-26 17:04:26

It's not just difficulty with mobility, but it is difficult to get cash nowadays.
I used to get cashback in the supermarket but they do not do that anymore. Most of the bank branches have closed along with their ATMs. Some other ATMs have disappeared.

You can get cash in the Post Office but that means waiting in a long queue as Post Offices are so busy.
I rarely have any cash nowadays. This is all pushing us towards a cashless society.

Gran22boys Tue 03-Feb-26 17:04:15

You were absolutely right not to pay cash. None of them want to declare their real earnings. Why should they get away with not paying the right amount of tax? Everyone else has to.

Judy54 Tue 03-Feb-26 17:04:03

I would pay in cash it it was a small amount or it had been agreed in advance with the tradesperson. Sounds like he has always given good service until now. Perhaps time to find a new Plumber.

crazyH Tue 03-Feb-26 16:59:22

I pay all tradesmen in cash, only because I know that’s what they want.

argymargy Tue 03-Feb-26 16:51:12

I don't like being asked for cash, as it always makes me think someone is avoiding their taxes. I don't keep more than £10 in the house so it's always a faff to go & get some. If a tradesman is reliable and trustworthy I will give them cash but I think you were right to stick to your guns in this instance.

ferry23 Tue 03-Feb-26 16:41:24

I made arrangements to have my boiler serviced and a basin tap replaced today, plumber said he would be here around 9am.

I've used said plumber before. He installed a new gas supply for me last year when I had a gas leak. He also installed a new boiler and he's done a couple of small jobs for me since then. I've also recommended him. So he's had a fair amount of business from me, but happy with his work, had no problems.

After I finished in the bathroom this morning I emptied the cupboard under the basin and cleared the surface of the vanity unit so he could get to the tap. I also made sure he could get to every radiator as he would probably want to bleed them.

9am came and went. At 10.15 I phoned him, I had to leave a message but just basically asked if there was a problem and was he coming. At 1pm I got a message saying he had van trouble but he could come tomorrow morning.

I was a bit annoyed he didn't bother to tell me but agreed to tomorrow. Of course everything I'll need in the bathroom tonight and in the morning is all over the place.

He's just messaged me asking if I can pay him in cash.

First of all I don't know how much it will be. Secondly it's gone 4pm. I don't keep massive amounts of cash in the house. I'm struggling with my mobility right now. The nearest cash machine is 3 miles away.

I told him I don't have cash in the house, I have difficulty getting out alone so not to worry, leave it for the time being.

He's now messaged me to say he'll be here and will accept bank tranfer (as normal by the way).

I don't think I was unreasonable in refusing to go and get cash - or was I?