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ferry23 Tue 03-Feb-26 16:41:24

I made arrangements to have my boiler serviced and a basin tap replaced today, plumber said he would be here around 9am.

I've used said plumber before. He installed a new gas supply for me last year when I had a gas leak. He also installed a new boiler and he's done a couple of small jobs for me since then. I've also recommended him. So he's had a fair amount of business from me, but happy with his work, had no problems.

After I finished in the bathroom this morning I emptied the cupboard under the basin and cleared the surface of the vanity unit so he could get to the tap. I also made sure he could get to every radiator as he would probably want to bleed them.

9am came and went. At 10.15 I phoned him, I had to leave a message but just basically asked if there was a problem and was he coming. At 1pm I got a message saying he had van trouble but he could come tomorrow morning.

I was a bit annoyed he didn't bother to tell me but agreed to tomorrow. Of course everything I'll need in the bathroom tonight and in the morning is all over the place.

He's just messaged me asking if I can pay him in cash.

First of all I don't know how much it will be. Secondly it's gone 4pm. I don't keep massive amounts of cash in the house. I'm struggling with my mobility right now. The nearest cash machine is 3 miles away.

I told him I don't have cash in the house, I have difficulty getting out alone so not to worry, leave it for the time being.

He's now messaged me to say he'll be here and will accept bank tranfer (as normal by the way).

I don't think I was unreasonable in refusing to go and get cash - or was I?

AmberGran Fri 06-Feb-26 19:07:25

I would never agree to cash payment at short notice even if I had it in the house. I don't want people to think I have lots of cash around the house no matter what I actually have there.

I've paid electricians and handymen with cash in the past. If it's not too expensive I'm happy to do it so long as I have enough notice to get the cash. Most payments are BACs now anyway but I might use a credit card if it's expensive.

ViceVersa Fri 06-Feb-26 16:23:32

I do - and have always - paid all my taxes throughout my working life. I do not, however, see it as my place to police whether others do the same. If I pay someone to provide a service, it's up to them to pay their tax - not me. I've done my part - if they're not paying the correct amount of tax, HMRC can chase them up.

argymargy Fri 06-Feb-26 16:14:09

Menopauselbitch

argymargy

I don't like being asked for cash, as it always makes me think someone is avoiding their taxes. I don't keep more than £10 in the house so it's always a faff to go & get some. If a tradesman is reliable and trustworthy I will give them cash but I think you were right to stick to your guns in this instance.

So what if they are. Have you any idea the taxes workmen pay, they will often do it a bit cheaper for cash as well. I’ll bet if your accountant ( if you ever needed one) said there was a loophole so your tax bill would be cheaper you’d jump at it. Maybe if they lowered the threshold to 20% instead of 12% like Reform are promising more people would pay more tax. It’s not tax dodge it’s avoiding the government bleeding small businesses dry.

I pay all my taxes and am happy to do so. When working I paid more in taxes than the national average wage and was happy to do so. Taxes are progressive, so that the more people earn the more they pay - I agree with this completely. People always want lower taxes then constantly moan about getting poor public services. People want to run small businesses so they can get rich - that's absolutely fine by me but just pay your taxes.

Franski Thu 05-Feb-26 13:44:51

Hope he came, did the job and everything sorted?

Franski Thu 05-Feb-26 13:43:48

Ferry23.
I am with you! Others have missed the point. (Sometimes I think we at GN are just too quick to tell our own story or give an opinion instead of actually reading the OP dilemma or question.) It was late in the day and you didn't have cash or know how much it would be.

DiamondLily Thu 05-Feb-26 12:44:54

I pay in cash if I get a discount. Other than that, I pay by card or bank transfer. I don’t really keep much cash indoors.

Menopauselbitch Thu 05-Feb-26 10:47:39

All the people saying about ‘dodging’ tax, so what, I’m sick and tired of this government bleeding small businesses dry. If you’ve never had a business you have no idea. I had a 60 seater cafe my vat bill was 5k every 3 months, I never made much until I got a clever accountant. If I can save someone being ripped off by the powers that be so be it.

Menopauselbitch Thu 05-Feb-26 10:43:47

Jealous much. Keeps prices down paying cash. I’ll bet if ( but I doubt it) you had an accountant and he said there was a loophole to save you money you’d jump at it.

Menopauselbitch Thu 05-Feb-26 10:41:41

crazyH

I pay all tradesmen in cash, only because I know that’s what they want.

Same, keeps the from getting bled dry from the tax man. Keeps prices down.

Menopauselbitch Thu 05-Feb-26 10:39:55

argymargy

I don't like being asked for cash, as it always makes me think someone is avoiding their taxes. I don't keep more than £10 in the house so it's always a faff to go & get some. If a tradesman is reliable and trustworthy I will give them cash but I think you were right to stick to your guns in this instance.

So what if they are. Have you any idea the taxes workmen pay, they will often do it a bit cheaper for cash as well. I’ll bet if your accountant ( if you ever needed one) said there was a loophole so your tax bill would be cheaper you’d jump at it. Maybe if they lowered the threshold to 20% instead of 12% like Reform are promising more people would pay more tax. It’s not tax dodge it’s avoiding the government bleeding small businesses dry.

CariadAgain Thu 05-Feb-26 07:25:22

Graphite

That he usually wants a bank transfer suggests that this request was a one-off. Perhaps whoever fixed his van as an emergency job, maybe a local garage rather than an AA/RAC call out, would only do the job quickly for cash and he said he’d pay them the next day? Maybe he negotiated a better price for cash? Who knows?

Maybe the job came to more than the limit that one can take from an ATM. If he’s local and the nearest ATM is 3 miles away for you then it will be similar for him.

There could be any number of reasons why he asked for cash not necessarily connected to tax evasion.

I can assure people that when people are suspected of tax evasion, HMRC employs techniques which easily reveal whether someone is doing a cash jobs which haven’t been declared.

The fact is that a lot of older people do keep a lot of cash in the house in sums that would far exceed the costs of a boiler service and a tap replacement, say £200.

He probably has other clients who do pay him in cash. Whatever the reason for him needing cash, he was probably taking a punt that you might be able to pay him that way this time but you were perfectly within your rights to say no.

Agreed - and I wouldnt necessarily have regarded it as odd.

I've got a plumber turning up here today re a tap. I've checked out what she's likely to say/how much they're likely to charge when she looks at it and have got a couple of hundred £s to spare to cover worst case analysis by her.

Belardo Wed 04-Feb-26 23:41:46

I agree that it's not always convenient to have a lot of cash available, nor can it feel particularly safe to do so. As the OP stated, there's also the question of not knowing just how much they need to pay. Also, how trustworthy are the workmen? Is it a good idea to let them know you keep quantities of cash in the house? Most reliable and honest tradesmen will be happy to accept a bank transfer or even a cheque.

Graphite Wed 04-Feb-26 23:37:38

That he usually wants a bank transfer suggests that this request was a one-off. Perhaps whoever fixed his van as an emergency job, maybe a local garage rather than an AA/RAC call out, would only do the job quickly for cash and he said he’d pay them the next day? Maybe he negotiated a better price for cash? Who knows?

Maybe the job came to more than the limit that one can take from an ATM. If he’s local and the nearest ATM is 3 miles away for you then it will be similar for him.

There could be any number of reasons why he asked for cash not necessarily connected to tax evasion.

I can assure people that when people are suspected of tax evasion, HMRC employs techniques which easily reveal whether someone is doing a cash jobs which haven’t been declared.

The fact is that a lot of older people do keep a lot of cash in the house in sums that would far exceed the costs of a boiler service and a tap replacement, say £200.

He probably has other clients who do pay him in cash. Whatever the reason for him needing cash, he was probably taking a punt that you might be able to pay him that way this time but you were perfectly within your rights to say no.

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 23:08:59

Allira

Ps I'll pay for our cocoa
Cash ok?

😂

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 23:05:57

Ps I'll pay for our cocoa
Cash ok?

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 23:05:13

Basgetti

(In my defence, I’m quite new. I’ll get my coat ……)

Pyjamas and cocoa time 😴

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 22:56:24

(In my defence, I’m quite new. I’ll get my coat ……)

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 22:55:39

I’m obviously having a great evening 🤣

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 22:42:19

Basgetti

Sorry, Petra 🤦‍♀️.
Hard to tell sometimes.

It was me who said it 😂

Basgetti Wed 04-Feb-26 22:38:50

Sorry, Petra 🤦‍♀️.
Hard to tell sometimes.

M0nica Wed 04-Feb-26 22:31:49

25Avalon

Btw he may not be VAT registered so is not guilty of tax evasion and can issue an invoice.

You still pay income tax on the ensuing income whether you are VAT registered or not.

Allira Wed 04-Feb-26 22:31:03

petra

Basgetti

Pretty sure he could pay his cleaner by bank transfer, Allira.

It was a joke.

Thanks petra 😁

25Avalon Wed 04-Feb-26 22:15:42

Btw he may not be VAT registered so is not guilty of tax evasion and can issue an invoice.

25Avalon Wed 04-Feb-26 22:07:03

Only pay cash if it suits you like he’s offering money off which he wasn’t. You may need proof your boiler was serviced if ever you need to make a claim on the insurance if it breaks down. I am surprised you had to contact him when he didn’t arrive and he didn’t contact you first. It’s annoying to plan your day round someone coming and they don’t arrive. Mind you trades people often seem to let you down these days.

MT62 Wed 04-Feb-26 22:02:00

Basgetti

Presumably your plumber is Gas Safe registered, Ferry? Did you check? If not, installing a new gas supply is illegal.
I’m asking because it seems odd that a registered plumber would ask for cash.

That isn’t true as I know someone who paid cash & got a certificate. Like someone on here said, it’s up to the tradespeople to declare their earnings.