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Watching Your Heroes Die

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MayBee70 Sun 07-Jun-26 13:19:54

Anthony Head was a great animal lover and supported many animal charities. He was also a very kind man. I only realised it from things I’ve read on Facebook.72 is no age and he also only lost his wife a few months ago. I often find that famous people’s charity work only become know after they die (eg George Michael). So they then become heroes to me.

MawsRosie Sun 07-Jun-26 12:16:46

I wouldn’t necessarily consider them heroes (Maggie Smith and Alan Rickman excepted!) but it is our age and our generation.
One of the things my father often said when he heard somebody had died was “He was no age” - how often am I saying that now!
And at the risk of being thoroughly depressing- too often younger men and women than oneself - a reminder of one’s mortality, it makes you think.

SpinDriftCoastal Sun 07-Jun-26 07:21:52

Yes, I definitely agree and not only celebrities. Heroes I have known in real life, relatives who were always 'the grown ups'.

Fallingstar Sat 06-Jun-26 22:10:57

Oh yes, so many have gone, the band members/singers, the actors, the TV presenters, and am sometimes caught off guard believing so-and-so had already died. Is hard to keep track, and of course in my minds eye I see them as their younger selves.
I believe Frankie Valli is still alive, have started counting those still with us, it feels more uplifting.

HobbyCat Sat 06-Jun-26 22:06:05

I read about Anthony Head and Eric Faulkner dying over the last couple of days. I’m 62, so all the singers/actors/celebrities I watched when I was younger are dying off now. I find it so upsetting but it struck me that everyone goes through this. It’s so hard realising that I am following all my favourite singers and actors etc waiting for the next one to die. It makes me hyper aware of my own mortality. Anyone else?