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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

Is there an afterlife?

While we're unlikely ever to know for sure, says author Theresa Cheung, there are a startling number of accounts from those who have had near death experiences that point towards the possibility of an afterlife. What do you think?

Theresa Cheung

Is there an afterlife?

Posted on: Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

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Do you believe in life after death?

It’s unlikely that we will ever have solid scientific proof that there is life after death, but we do have something that comes extremely close and that is accounts of people who have actually died and returned to tell their stories.

These voyagers to frontiers unknown report astonishing glimpses of a world beyond, a world that shimmers with light, magic and love. Hailey sent me her story:

"In 2005 I nearly died on the operating table. I haemorrhaged and my doctor later told me that everyone thought they had lost me. I recall floating above my body and seeing the surgeon and staff panic as they tried to save my life. I didn't feel any panic myself. It was as if I was watching an interesting novelty. I wasn't involved.

Suddenly, I felt myself being blown feet first into a grey mist. I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again. Can't explain it very well but I remembered everything and again there was that feeling of interested detachment. I wasn't involved. I just watched. Then I found myself in this beautiful place. It was the most gorgeous and glittering place I have ever seen – like a garden but so much more than a garden. I felt nothing but completeness and happiness. My mind was still. I heard music but music that I have not heard on earth before and the scenery about me was like nothing I have seen on earth either – it was so vivid and beautiful. It shimmered like crystal and diamonds. Then everything vanished and the next thing I recall is waking up feeling very sore and tired in the recovery room.

I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again.


Everyone who knows me will tell you that afterwards I changed. I know I have changed. It sounds corny but I feel like I was somehow born again, starting my life again. I am more compassionate and considerate of myself and others. I live in the present. I'm not afraid to be loving and spontaneous. I see more clearly now."

Near death experiences (NDEs) occur when a person is clinically dead or dangerously close to death. There are many questions about NDEs but one thing is certain and that is they exist. There are thousands of reports from people who believe they have glimpsed life after death, and a recent scientific study led by Dr Sam Parnia from the University of Southampton, has tentatively proved that consciousness can survive bodily death by at least three minutes.

Initially, when I began to collect afterlife encounter stories, I thought the experience was extremely rare, but I could not have been more wrong. Over the years the stories have flooded in and one reason for that may be modern resuscitation techniques because thirty or forty years ago these people would have died and taken their golden stories with them.

Not surprisingly, there have been many doubts about the validity of NDEs and chief among these is the argument that the experience is simply a hallucination but this cannot explain why all over the world and throughout history thousands of men, women and children have reported similar sensations during NDEs despite radical differences in cultures and belief systems. How is that possible? Surely, if the experience was hallucination wouldn't each person imagine something different? Why are there such strong similarities? Why after their NDE do people consistently report that they have lost their fear of death?

Theresa's book The Ten Secrets of Heaven: Mysteries of the Afterlifeis published in paperback by Simon & Schuster, and is available from Amazon. You can also find Theresa on Facebook here.

By Theresa Cheung

Twitter: @simonschuster

leemw711 Mon 29-Aug-16 01:34:21

My husband died 11 months ago and we explained this to my 3 year old granddaughter by telling her that grandad was now a star twinkling in the sky so every evening she sings Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star to him at bedtime. I hear her chattering to him as she moves around sometimes so I asked her last week if he answers. She said "Yes, he tells me jokes"! I can live with that as an idea but still have to face the final goodbye next month when we scatter his ashes. I'm not looking forward to that but it needs to be done...I would love to be able to believe that we will be together again one day; I was 16 when I met him for the first time and I'm 63 now so I suppose we were very lucky to be together for so long.

lemondrizzle Sun 28-Aug-16 20:44:25

I agree with you Korky about learning lessons and keep coming back, I'm certain that we'll see not only our family again but also our pets again.We are here for a reason, but our real life is the next life, we'll be just going home.

Korky Sun 28-Aug-16 17:46:43

Too many people have had too many experiences to just dismiss where we go after our time on earth is up. What happens is surely up to us, if we need to learn more lessons then maybe we come back and exist again. But what I dearly hope is everyone I love and all the wonderful pets and animals I've been with on earth are there when my time comes.

radicalnan Sun 28-Aug-16 15:51:47

If we are all energy (well I was once) and energy cannot be destroyed entirely (mine was though) then......we must be recycled at some atomic level...........so, given long enough, what with re cycling being what it is......eventually, the world will get me back. Lucky eh?????

sarahellenwhitney Sun 28-Aug-16 14:06:58

I like to believe there is.That I would then see those I have loved and lost but maybe come across some of my not so favourite kind .I am a Christian although I confess to not going to church a true christian in my opinion is one who will always help others in their time of need and in effect treat your neighbour as you would wish to be treated.I know of several people who never miss a sunday church service but are not what you would call caring or you could go to if you needed some help.

Grannyknot Thu 25-Aug-16 19:51:09

day6 that's a great letter.

12rg12ja Thu 25-Aug-16 19:33:56

All I know is my mother saw my father who was already dead just before she died and when I was trying to decide on music for her funeral a piece of China jumped off a shelf on to the floor whilst I was listening to a particular piece of music. I took this to mean that was what she wanted.

I have had many other unexplained incidents in my life so live in hope this isn't the end

wot Tue 23-Aug-16 14:30:45

Just love that letter, post. Thanks!

Day6 Tue 23-Aug-16 12:53:43

Thought I'd include this. It's from the book "Albert Einstein's Letters from and To Children."

Phyllis wrote and asked him if scientist's pray. I fully agree with his response. smile

January 24, 1936

Dear Phyllis,

I will attempt to reply to your question as simply as I can. Here is my answer:

Scientists believe that every occurrence, including the affairs of human beings, is due to the laws of nature. Therefore a scientist cannot be inclined to believe that the course of events can be influenced by prayer, that is, by a supernaturally manifested wish.

However, we must concede that our actual knowledge of these forces is imperfect, so that in the end the belief in the existence of a final, ultimate spirit rests on a kind of faith. Such belief remains widespread even with the current achievements in science.

But also, everyone who is seriously involved in the pursuit of science becomes convinced that some spirit is manifest in the laws of the universe, one that is vastly superior to that of man. In this way the pursuit of science leads to a religious feeling of a special sort, which is surely quite different from the religiosity of someone more naive.

With cordial greetings,

your A. Einstein

mrsmopp Tue 23-Aug-16 11:22:57

Oh yes there is, jings!

bikergran Mon 22-Aug-16 12:06:08

I'm ok thanks dj I'm sure your Golden Wedding day was full of happy and sad memories...

gillybob Mon 22-Aug-16 12:03:55

I agree durhamjen. For me too the afterlife is looking at life after.

Now I look at my DGC and can see in them, things I saw in my late grandad, grandma and my own mum.

I envy you your lack of fear in dying whitewave. I have always feared death. Not sure how/if I could ever overcome it. In fact sometimes I fear death so much I find it hard to enjoy living.

In her very last days my grandma talked to my late grandad as though he was there in the room with us. She held out her arms to him and pleaded with him to "take her". sad

durhamjen Mon 22-Aug-16 11:54:19

Hi, biker. How are you?
It would have been our golden wedding anniversary ten days ago.
Had three of our grandchildren here instead. That's the afterlife, seeing signs of their grandad in them.

bikergran Mon 22-Aug-16 11:45:10

I can be there with your thoughts dj my dh did exactly the same, although in tbe hospital bed we had brought in..he too had had enough of struggling.

lemondrizzle Sun 21-Aug-16 04:25:39

Yes but many people who have had near death experiences have described things about the hospital that they couldn't possible have seen. I haven't a shadow of a doubt that there is an afterlife. Life itself is a miracle, the universe had a beginning, scientists still can't explain what started it.

harrigran Sat 20-Aug-16 13:32:18

Seeing things like lights at end of life is not proof of an after life. As the brain starts to shut down the nerve connections are erratic and misfire causing hallucinations.

durhamjen Sat 20-Aug-16 13:18:21

No, but it helps you accept death. He had a brain tumour which was terminal. He'd had enough.

whitewave Sat 20-Aug-16 03:37:03

That doesn't sound good dj

durhamjen Fri 19-Aug-16 22:29:13

Having watched my husband die in our own bed after refusing to eat and drink any more, that doesn't worry me, either.

Jane10 Fri 19-Aug-16 21:26:49

Yes that bit is undoubtedly a worry!

whitewave Fri 19-Aug-16 18:15:57

The thing is though dying holds not a nano-second of fear for me nor do I give it any thought (day-to-day). It is simply nothing to worry about. You will also not be disappointed because you will not be. Think before you were conceived - that's is how death is.

I do worry about the lead up to death though.

Day6 Fri 19-Aug-16 18:09:05

Ah, but whitewave, as I say to my sceptical son who says exactly the same thing, "But you don't know that for sure."

I don't KNOW either, for sure, but experiences when fully compos mentis lead me to firmly believe there is more. (Until they'd happened I thought death was the end.)

Jane10 Fri 19-Aug-16 18:08:01

I'm sad to hear that you have so little hope whitewave. As I said previously dying will be our last great adventure. We'll be setting off into the unknown. It'll be great. No rush though!

whitewave Fri 19-Aug-16 17:38:10

Exist!

whitewave Fri 19-Aug-16 17:33:54

I shan't say the same to you jane as neither you nor I will exert in any form well except dust.