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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

Is there an afterlife?

While we're unlikely ever to know for sure, says author Theresa Cheung, there are a startling number of accounts from those who have had near death experiences that point towards the possibility of an afterlife. What do you think?

Theresa Cheung

Is there an afterlife?

Posted on: Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

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Do you believe in life after death?

It’s unlikely that we will ever have solid scientific proof that there is life after death, but we do have something that comes extremely close and that is accounts of people who have actually died and returned to tell their stories.

These voyagers to frontiers unknown report astonishing glimpses of a world beyond, a world that shimmers with light, magic and love. Hailey sent me her story:

"In 2005 I nearly died on the operating table. I haemorrhaged and my doctor later told me that everyone thought they had lost me. I recall floating above my body and seeing the surgeon and staff panic as they tried to save my life. I didn't feel any panic myself. It was as if I was watching an interesting novelty. I wasn't involved.

Suddenly, I felt myself being blown feet first into a grey mist. I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again. Can't explain it very well but I remembered everything and again there was that feeling of interested detachment. I wasn't involved. I just watched. Then I found myself in this beautiful place. It was the most gorgeous and glittering place I have ever seen – like a garden but so much more than a garden. I felt nothing but completeness and happiness. My mind was still. I heard music but music that I have not heard on earth before and the scenery about me was like nothing I have seen on earth either – it was so vivid and beautiful. It shimmered like crystal and diamonds. Then everything vanished and the next thing I recall is waking up feeling very sore and tired in the recovery room.

I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again.


Everyone who knows me will tell you that afterwards I changed. I know I have changed. It sounds corny but I feel like I was somehow born again, starting my life again. I am more compassionate and considerate of myself and others. I live in the present. I'm not afraid to be loving and spontaneous. I see more clearly now."

Near death experiences (NDEs) occur when a person is clinically dead or dangerously close to death. There are many questions about NDEs but one thing is certain and that is they exist. There are thousands of reports from people who believe they have glimpsed life after death, and a recent scientific study led by Dr Sam Parnia from the University of Southampton, has tentatively proved that consciousness can survive bodily death by at least three minutes.

Initially, when I began to collect afterlife encounter stories, I thought the experience was extremely rare, but I could not have been more wrong. Over the years the stories have flooded in and one reason for that may be modern resuscitation techniques because thirty or forty years ago these people would have died and taken their golden stories with them.

Not surprisingly, there have been many doubts about the validity of NDEs and chief among these is the argument that the experience is simply a hallucination but this cannot explain why all over the world and throughout history thousands of men, women and children have reported similar sensations during NDEs despite radical differences in cultures and belief systems. How is that possible? Surely, if the experience was hallucination wouldn't each person imagine something different? Why are there such strong similarities? Why after their NDE do people consistently report that they have lost their fear of death?

Theresa's book The Ten Secrets of Heaven: Mysteries of the Afterlifeis published in paperback by Simon & Schuster, and is available from Amazon. You can also find Theresa on Facebook here.

By Theresa Cheung

Twitter: @simonschuster

Granny23 Sat 06-Aug-16 00:09:56

When I lost our second baby and what seemed like gallons of blood, I too had a trip whooshing along the tunnel towards the bright light with a sense of people who had gone before, including my Granny, reaching out to welcome me. Then I sensed my DH calling and pulling me back and reminding me that I had a toddler who needed me. The light faded and I slowly receded back to my bed and after what seemed a long time opened my eyes and saw my distraught DH. I felt sad but very calm, although I had silent tears running down my face. The Doctor had also arrived while I was 'away' and I remember that he said 'Welcome back to the land of the living - you gave us a bit of a fright then'.

Later my DH confirmed that I had been 'gone' for quite some time and that he had been shaking me and screaming at me.

Having always had very low blood pressure, I have fainted umpteen times, but apart from the whooshing noise (which I believe is the blood draining from the brain) this experience was totally different in that I felt neither sick nor dizzy, nor disoriented. It was, rather, a pleasant and comforting experience.

Faye Fri 05-Aug-16 23:37:33

I think people do come back but are mostly not noticed. One night after falling asleep with my bedside lamp on I woke up and there was a woman sitting next to my bed. She was holding a baby but I could only see the back of the baby's head. She looked very much like she could have been my sister, similar hair, also similar features to me. As I sat up and she faded. I surprised myself because I automatically reached out to her as I sat up...eek. Makes me wonder who is sitting watching us while we sleep or go about our daily lives.

I was at my mother's once and we were watching a programme, as it finished my mother drifted off to sleep. We were going to watch another one straight after so I jumped up and said I would make us a cup of tea. Mum walked into the kitchen straight after and said she wondered where she was for a moment. There was a girl sitting at the dining table watching mum. My mother said she had a large ribbon in her hair, but wouldn't talk about it as it scared her. Another time my mother woke up in the night and could see her mother in the mirror, she said it really frightened her and she said it seemed like she was there for quite a few minutes. My mother didn't drink and prided herself on not taking medication until she became elderly. She was always a healthy active person, not really interested in things such as ghosts, the after life etc.

I can't remember if I have posted about these two incidences, I could write a book on these experiences.

obieone Fri 05-Aug-16 23:18:35

There are probably more points I would like to respond to, but I will have to come back to them at a later time or day.

But I did want to ask jingl something. If I remember correctly, you did used to believe in God more than you do now? And I am wondering, and rather hoping that it was not something I, or perhaps someone else said on gransnet that put you off, if you dont mind me asking?

Also, I do think that those who may have had more faith previously than they do right now, hold on to whatever faith they have left, as it is so very important to do that.

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 21:45:52

True Anya, he doesn't make mistakes ,hence only one Jingle, two would be a big mistake grin

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:32:55

grin

Ana Fri 05-Aug-16 21:26:35

You're right that there's only one jingl, Annie! grin

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 21:25:00

There is one Jingle and he loves you , totally

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:14:19

If there was one, I would totally dislike him.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:12:59

I am totally through with this bloody 'God' thing.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 21:11:20

I'm blowed if I'd bother to report it if someone pm'd me trying to sell their book. Why would you bother? confused

GNHQ are very patronising. *panthea's right there! grin

Back to the thread! (Not that I've got anything to add)

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 20:42:32

I agree, starbird.

starbird Fri 05-Aug-16 20:18:31

As to why people don't come back and show themselves - as per my previous post, this did happen with my father in law.

However, my belief is that once you leave this world, life is so much bigger and better, new avenues open up, time as we know it is irrelevant. Most of those who have near death experiences do not want to come back, nor do they feel the urge to contact those left behind, knowing they will be together eventually. It is only when persuaded that they have a job to do in this life that they return.

Falconbird Fri 05-Aug-16 20:14:39

I've never heard anyone describe it as being in the underground although I have heard about the tunnel experience. I was travelling at great speed and didn't want to come back.

I was only 11 and I had never heard anyone talk about this and I had never been in the underground.

Fascinating.

Newquay Fri 05-Aug-16 19:46:49

Yes it was a strange and, surprisingly common, event Falconbird.
You can only tell things as they happened to you.
It's not something I tell everyone unless it sort of 'arises' in conversation. . . .

Falconbird Fri 05-Aug-16 18:53:08

Newquay:

I nearly died when I had menigitus as a child and I also went down the tunnel which was exactly as you describe. It was like the underground with a light at the end.

I was brought back by powereful antibiotics and nurses yelling at me "come back Falconbird" except they obviously used my real name smile

Iam64 Fri 05-Aug-16 18:15:28

I am always puzzled when non believers support their views by insisting that if there is a God s/he would not allow suffering. Suffering is part of the human condition. Even when things are going smoothly in our own lives, we'll have loved ones who are struggling, or we'll switch on the news and see dreadful events devastating lives.
I can't imagine what we'd all be like if our God/s ensured life was always a bowl of cherries. People can be selfish, judgemental and cruel - no God or spirit makes them behave like that. It's free choice.

Newquay Fri 05-Aug-16 18:09:27

Years ago I suddenly had a bad back, was in dreadful pain. Went to bed and slept (unusually). Next morning I was desperate for the loo. DH tried to help me to sit up to get to toilet. Pain was excruciating.
He says my eyes rolled up, he has seen me faint and this was no ordinary faint-he thought I'd died.
I say I was whizzing along a dark tunnel (like the underground) towards a light (like at the end of a tunnel). Suddenly stopped, quite clearly heard a voice say "wrong direction" and I whizzed back to hear DH shouting at me to breathe!!
I am a Christian and have believed for a long time as Mumofmad boys so succinctly explains.
I have doubts about details having a DD suffering a dreadful chronic illness despite all our prayers-she does, however, live her life to the full thanks to modern medicine.
Also my dear sister's husband spent a l-o-n-g 9 years dying, it was awful and again, despite many prayers he suffered and died.
I have no explanation or answer for their sufferings or my experience but life would be awful IMHO without the prospect that "all will be well".
As someone else said it's a free gift, you can't earn your way to heaven. It just has to be accepted.

nanaK54 Fri 05-Aug-16 17:54:20

I am fairly new but can say that I think it's a really friendly and supportive community with many interesting threads

Elrel Fri 05-Aug-16 17:36:00

Wot - absolutely, she was too quick to judge us, ALL of us! I almost seconded your deleted post!!

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 17:31:14

Sorry. As Elrel says, the vast majority of GN ers are kind and supportive.

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 17:27:43

Oh! ?

Elrel Fri 05-Aug-16 16:20:02

If Panthea had deigned to look at a few threads before giving her verdict she would have seen the kindness and support on Gransnet.

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 16:10:04

Message deleted by Gransnet. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Panthea27 Fri 05-Aug-16 16:07:49

Nothing to do with this posting at all I just wanted to pop it somewhere. Judging by the " Friendly" response I think my friend did herself a favour, never come accross such an unfriendly community .
Please do enjoy your meaningless conversations.
Signing out
Panthea

RockNanny Fri 05-Aug-16 16:02:47

I have read a lot of books on spiritualism, life after death, etc., have had messages from mediums - some amazing and some mediocre - and I currently belong to an elightenment circle at my local spiritualist church. My own daughter and son-in-law have had several unusual experiences. I like to think I am open-minded, not being yet totally convinced of what it is all about. I do know, though, that there is a lot in life, time and space that we do not have the answers to.....yet! I have read a book or two by Theresa. Can't comment here as I have read so many books. I have to say, though, that to anyone who is curious I would strongly recommend reading one called "Visions, Trips and Crowded Rooms" by David Kessler. Unless you're an absolute sceptic it will really give you a lot to wonder at.