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LucyGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

Is there an afterlife?

While we're unlikely ever to know for sure, says author Theresa Cheung, there are a startling number of accounts from those who have had near death experiences that point towards the possibility of an afterlife. What do you think?

Theresa Cheung

Is there an afterlife?

Posted on: Thu 04-Aug-16 12:29:02

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Do you believe in life after death?

It’s unlikely that we will ever have solid scientific proof that there is life after death, but we do have something that comes extremely close and that is accounts of people who have actually died and returned to tell their stories.

These voyagers to frontiers unknown report astonishing glimpses of a world beyond, a world that shimmers with light, magic and love. Hailey sent me her story:

"In 2005 I nearly died on the operating table. I haemorrhaged and my doctor later told me that everyone thought they had lost me. I recall floating above my body and seeing the surgeon and staff panic as they tried to save my life. I didn't feel any panic myself. It was as if I was watching an interesting novelty. I wasn't involved.

Suddenly, I felt myself being blown feet first into a grey mist. I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again. Can't explain it very well but I remembered everything and again there was that feeling of interested detachment. I wasn't involved. I just watched. Then I found myself in this beautiful place. It was the most gorgeous and glittering place I have ever seen – like a garden but so much more than a garden. I felt nothing but completeness and happiness. My mind was still. I heard music but music that I have not heard on earth before and the scenery about me was like nothing I have seen on earth either – it was so vivid and beautiful. It shimmered like crystal and diamonds. Then everything vanished and the next thing I recall is waking up feeling very sore and tired in the recovery room.

I don't know why but I remember seeing my legs and bare feet bathed in yellow light floating into the mist. When I was in the mist I lived my life again.


Everyone who knows me will tell you that afterwards I changed. I know I have changed. It sounds corny but I feel like I was somehow born again, starting my life again. I am more compassionate and considerate of myself and others. I live in the present. I'm not afraid to be loving and spontaneous. I see more clearly now."

Near death experiences (NDEs) occur when a person is clinically dead or dangerously close to death. There are many questions about NDEs but one thing is certain and that is they exist. There are thousands of reports from people who believe they have glimpsed life after death, and a recent scientific study led by Dr Sam Parnia from the University of Southampton, has tentatively proved that consciousness can survive bodily death by at least three minutes.

Initially, when I began to collect afterlife encounter stories, I thought the experience was extremely rare, but I could not have been more wrong. Over the years the stories have flooded in and one reason for that may be modern resuscitation techniques because thirty or forty years ago these people would have died and taken their golden stories with them.

Not surprisingly, there have been many doubts about the validity of NDEs and chief among these is the argument that the experience is simply a hallucination but this cannot explain why all over the world and throughout history thousands of men, women and children have reported similar sensations during NDEs despite radical differences in cultures and belief systems. How is that possible? Surely, if the experience was hallucination wouldn't each person imagine something different? Why are there such strong similarities? Why after their NDE do people consistently report that they have lost their fear of death?

Theresa's book The Ten Secrets of Heaven: Mysteries of the Afterlifeis published in paperback by Simon & Schuster, and is available from Amazon. You can also find Theresa on Facebook here.

By Theresa Cheung

Twitter: @simonschuster

Ana Fri 05-Aug-16 16:01:08

And if by 'whisper' you mean she sent various members PMs promoting her book, then it's no surprise she was reported to GNHQ!

People understandably don't like receiving unsolicited private messages from someone they've never heard of before.

Jane10 Fri 05-Aug-16 15:54:36

Er what's this got to do with this thread? Sorry your friend went about promoting her book in the wrong way. An email to GNHQ asking them how best to do it would most likely have led to a positive response. No need for the unpleasant tone of Pantheas posting.

Panthea27 Fri 05-Aug-16 14:44:20

I would like to say that I joined Gransnet to speak up for a Friend. She had the " Temerity" to whisper a few of you " Ladies" to tell about her book. NOT to sell it you understand, simply to let you know that is could be read for free on Amazon Kindle if one is a member of the Library.
This caused her account to be suspended, however GNHQ were so unprofessional and rude, not to have told her this was what they were doing. She then received a very patronizing mail telling her that she had been reported, and if she agreed to stick to the rules she would be reinstated.The most disappointing thing here is that you " Ladies" who did the reporting ( YOU know who you are), could have whispered her and said that you didn't like to receive personal messages, or perhaps pointing out that this is frowned upon, thereby giving her a chance to put things right. How nasty to report someone, what a lovely welcome. For sure she does not want to come back now. Just thought you should know this and hope you are happy with yourselves. Nice work!

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 14:38:31

Esspee, I have often wondered why some people are rude.

wot Fri 05-Aug-16 14:35:05

The first post. I ever put on GN was about the afterlife. I had some really abrupt responses at first which nearly put me off.

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 14:15:48

I have often wondered why some people cannot respect the fact that mocking people's faith is ill mannered and deeply offensive, suppose they get w kick out of it ,quite sad really

BlueBelle Fri 05-Aug-16 13:39:21

On the subject of mediums ... Think about it if there is really an after life wouldn't it be hell to be looking down on your kids and grandkids seeing them crying, unhappy, ill hurt, injured do you really really think if we were looking down and seeing what they are doing would be heaven oh my word that would be cruelty of the highest degree
I m afraid I think mediums are all charletons just out to make money out of misery

Surely the wisdom and knowledge gained Wot is passed on to those you come in contact with children grandchildren friends ..... not kept. what use would it be in a heaven

I think we probably all agree there isn't a physical heaven with lots of bodies in it , our soul or being, call it what you will is just what we pass on in life ....as simple as that, our memory good or bad is all that is left of us

Esspee Fri 05-Aug-16 13:16:19

I have always wondered how normally intelligent people can believe in religious mumbo jumbo.

Grannyknot Fri 05-Aug-16 10:53:35

I've written about this on GN before I think; my mother was dying of lung cancer and her three adult children were with her, taking turns to sit with her. On one of the occasions when I was with her, she said "There are lots of people in the room, the room is really crowded". It freaked me out a bit because there was only me (and her). On another occasion when we were all three with her, she whispered with a contented smile, that my gran (her mother) was there.

She wasn't on any medication and the above happened the day before she died, so couldn't have been hallucinations due to death or medication. I've pondered about it from time to time.

Anniebach Fri 05-Aug-16 10:50:26

Christ is not selective i

mrsmopp Fri 05-Aug-16 10:37:15

Grand tea, how can you go to heaven to a God you don't believe in?

Faye Fri 05-Aug-16 09:54:03

My eldest DS a Uniting Church minister has sat with many people as they died. She said many times she has been called to nursing homes to sit with someone because their families have not bothered to be at their elderly relative's bedside.

When my DF was dying at a hospice he was reaching out and smiling at something we couldn't see. At first I thought he wanted me to hug him but it wasn't me he was smiling at. He kept looking over to something and smiling. My sister said she has seen this often with people who were dying.

Through the night and day that my siblings and step mother and I spent at the hospice I sometimes chatted to a woman who was in her seventies when we went to the kitchen to get a drink, her brother was in the hospice. She said he had been there for three weeks and was doing it tough. My father died the next afternoon and I spoke to this woman and she said her brother had just died too, she mentioned that he had also been reaching out to someone they couldn't see.

I will add that I am not religious at all.

GandTea Fri 05-Aug-16 09:51:30

MrsMopp, ae you saying He is selective, only those that believe get it, seems rather uncharitable.

mrsmopp Fri 05-Aug-16 09:43:30

Mumofmadboys, I agree with you and I believe without a shadow of doubt that it's all true. He proved himself by his compassion, his miracles, his love, his humbleness and by his resurrection. He did what he came to earth for, I have no doubts whatsoever.
So the answer to the OP is, yes, there is an afterlife for all who believe in Him.

GandTea Fri 05-Aug-16 09:25:39

Imo, our afterlife lives on in the memories of others. How I would love to be a writer, composer, lyricist, artist etc, where ones life lives on for ever.
My life may be remembered for a generation or two, then it will fall into the realms of genealogy, nothing of me will remain for all time. sad

Marmark1 Fri 05-Aug-16 09:03:32

Also my dear sister who died sudden of a brain hemorage,would never be able to hold herself back,she was such a nosey chatterbox.Love her dearly,
Scuse spelling please.

Marmark1 Fri 05-Aug-16 08:58:52

I'd love to think there was,but there isn't,your dead all yer clothes washed,and your memory held in your loved ones hearts.
I know this because my dear B I Law knew he was dying of a brain tumour,before he got too poorly,he told my nephew( his son) if he could,he would come back to him. Well he never has,so!

Falconbird Fri 05-Aug-16 08:28:11

The hospital had told us that my dear husband had weeks to live. I was at his bedside with two of my sons. The eldest son has small children so I suggested he go home as my husband was asleep and looked OK.

My son stood up and immediately fell back in the chair. It was as if some force had pushed down on his shoulders. He looked so surprised and said. "I can't leave."

I then stood up and the same thing happened to me.

My dear husband died (unexpectedly) a few hours later.

Maybe it could be explained by us having a human intuition but it was the force of whatever it was that made us sit down again that really can't be explained.

My son is a non believer but I will never forget the look on his face when he was pushed back into his chair.

Mumsy Fri 05-Aug-16 08:21:15

Fippen 'eck! coping with this life is enough without worrying about an afterlife!!

tanith Fri 05-Aug-16 07:32:44

I choose not to be deluded others may make a different choice we should agree to differ and respect the choices made.

mumofmadboys Fri 05-Aug-16 07:22:42

I believe in an afterlife. I believe Jesus is the Son of God and through his death and resurrection it gives all people the chance to be redeemed and made right with God . As Mrsmopp said either Jesus's claims are true, or he was a liar or he was deluded and mentally ill. The gospel writers I believe add to the authenticity of Jesus's claims by the slightly different reports of the same event. Over the years millions of people have believed in the good news of Jesus. I don't think they can all be wrong.

Grannyknot Fri 05-Aug-16 07:01:01

Death is mysterious. The miracle of birth, and consciousness is also mysterious. We don't really know what goes on, do we?

FarNorth Fri 05-Aug-16 04:47:07

Jesus, if mistaken, need not have been any more of a liar or lunatic than people who nowadays believe in an afterlife.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Aug-16 01:04:08

mrsmopp I don't think Jesus was a liar but the people who wrote it all down later, might have been.

Peaseblossom Fri 05-Aug-16 00:54:51

I'm sure there is an afterlife. I have always believed so. This belief was strengthened when I saw a ghost in my bedroom in the middle of the night about 15 years ago. I was asleep and I suddenly woke up and saw an old lady standing by the side of the bed, fortunately the side furthest away from me! I propped myself up on my elbows and looked at her. I was very scared and my heart was beating very fast and I thought I wouldn't be surprised if I have a heart attack. She was looking at me with an angry face as if to say what are you doing in my house? I can remember exactly what she looked like and what she was wearing. I was staring at her face so was not aware of what she might have been wearing below her waist, but I remember she had a dress/top of navy and white small print, and grey hair and very baggy eyes. After a few seconds that seemed like ages, she gradually faded and disappeared. If anyone had told me this had happened to them I would have said I would have got up and run out of the room, but I could not move. I felt like I was frozen to the bed. I laid there until it got light and then I got up and went downstairs. I have never slept alone in that room again since that day. I believe it must have been the old lady who lived in my house before I bought it. Maybe she died in that room. I have always been scared of the dark and sleep with a dim light on. I'm not sure what would have happened if the room had been in total darkness. I had a touchlight on the bedside cabinet and as soon as she had disappeared I put it on the brightest setting until daylight came. I did not sleep any more that night after I had seen her. shock