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Being fed against beliefs in care home?

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MissAdventure Tue 04-Feb-20 19:32:46

I saw this kind of thing years ago, but not in recent years.

It's something that should never, ever happen.

(I know a nursery school that flouts all its so-called values, though)

Dec46 Tue 04-Feb-20 19:29:30

It seems like a form of abuse to me that this should happen. It is taking away freedom of choice and completely disregarding patients/residents reasonable request that their beliefs be respected.

welbeck Tue 04-Feb-20 18:38:16

I know of one hospital, more like an elderly care unit, where the nurses feely told us that the pudding fools were not vegetarian despite the printed sheet for ordering each meal stating that they were.
I tried to raise this with the catering firm, but they were not interested, and I had other things to attend to.
I think this sort of thing is commonplace. patients/families are too worried about their own situation to make a fuss, if they try to speak to someone its usually a catering assistant who barely speaks English, and has no influence on the matter.
nursing staff are v busy and otherwise occupied.
no one has time to pursue it.
we aonly found out when the nurse offered us some yogurts left in the fridge by a hindu family as they could not eat the supplied puddings. it was the mis-labelling that bothered me. no one seemed to care. very small potatoes, excuse the pun, compared with other concerns.

Saxifrage Tue 04-Feb-20 18:27:59

If you feed coeliacs gluten products it can make them very ill or suffer days of pain. I would be interested if this is included in your research and of course things like nut allergy. In my experience normal hospital wards are not particularly good.

yasatvforlife Tue 04-Feb-20 17:23:01

Hi everyone,

I work for a charity called V for Life and we are currently running an inquiry in Parliament.

It's come to our attention that many people are fed against their beliefs when they're in care homes (and even in hospitals). Most commonly, this is vegetarians and vegans, but it also includes people with religious beliefs who would not eat particular foods due to their beliefs.

We have collected quite a lot of evidence and stories of individuals who have had family in care and their loved ones are being fed food they would have never eaten or fundamentally disagree with. We have also had stories come in of people who have worked in care and have been told to feed people with dementia things because they 'won't know any better'.

I'd love if anyone who has experienced this or anything along these lines would get in touch by commenting below their stories. I think it's so important that people are treated with dignity and respect for their beliefs when they are are having to hold onto their identity the best they can. Thank you all!