Fashion advice needed, please!

Isn't it just - Grannylin? I'm having to disappear shortly. I'll be back for update on Greatnan's special outfit tomorrow.

....yes that's nice....(Soop and bag)! and if you've got time have a look at Next website for small bags/occasionwear for more ideas...M&S good too.Hey this is much more fun dressing someone else!

Greatnan click over Soop...I've just done the photo for you.

Greatnan photo showing bag [finely knitted silver] is on photos. On the day, I had a sprig of Freesias with a wee magnet attachment...looked lovely on the bag, not on the lapel. More I think about it...I'm thinking - silver.

I've looked. Yes it would look good.

What a lovely offer,Soop. I am trying to see your photos but when I click on your pink bar nothing happens. Am I doing something wrong?

I think silver would be good. I was wondering about silver before you posted.

Greatnan silver may work very well. I'm also thinking along the lines of deep rose...also, for my son's wedding, I used a silver antique purse on a fine chain. So different. I would love to lend it to you. It's been wrapped in tissue and doing nothing very special for three years. I think it's to be seen on the wedding photo that I uploaded. I'll take a look.

I have a silver top as well as a heavily beaded cream one - would silver be too light to go with the suit? I can't think of any strong colour that would go with eau de nil.

greatgran

Agree with oldgreymare about the colour of your top. Cream and eau de nil are not a good combo. Too wishy washy, and can sometimes look cheap.

Yes, matchy matchy is very old fashioned, but you cannot have BOTH your shoes AND your handbag a different colour from your outfit.
One of those has to be the same colour as outfit.

Greanan I have been to several weddings un the last two years and there were several trouser suits, it will be perfect.I agree with the small eye catching bag, matchy matchy is a no-no nowadays.

Greatnan...I agree with not having "matchy matchy" accessories. If your shoes are neutral [not white] you will appear taller. I would go for a very chic smallish bag in an eye-opening colour...beaded would look good, or embroidered. Accessorize may have some worth looking at. Wish I could join you. Sounds fun

This is my first time on Gransnet and only my second post so Greatnan all I can go on is your previous posts about your lovely trouser suit and you certainly don't sound like a "know it all", as long as you feel comfortable and it feels "right" then go for it and have a lovely time.

Your outfit sounds lovely and perfectly acceptable, particularly as the jacket is long-line.

A few years' ago I attended a formal wedding at The Church of The Immaculate Conception in Farm Street, Mayfair and both the mothers, of the bride and the groom, were in elegant trouser suits.

When DS1 got married I wore embroidered silk jacket with silk trousers and had my shoes dyed to match.

People don't seem to do matching handbags and shoes now but you could get an absolutely stunning and darling bag - and that with your tanned, healthy look will mean that no-one looks at your shoes which can therefore be the comfiest you can find in a shade that roughly matches.

My father is in his late 70's - ardent rambler and always slightly tanned. Nobody believes he is the age he is and you will find that people will be more interested in querying yours

Quite right susiecb...in fact think some folks use it as a chance to throw another colour into the mix just for fun!

Definitely don't match shoes with handbag - very Margaret Thatcher!!!

Greatnan, although I loathe wedges I have bought some nearly wedges to wear under my trouser suit as I felt I needed just a bit of height. I trawled through the web and found some lovely Gabor semi wedge sandals (I cant wear pop socks because of the veins so thought I'd have some nice sandals and show off my, still decent, toes!). The thickish sole and sturdy heel make me feel quite stable but do look elegant under the trousers. I'd just try on as many different styles as you can and go for what you feel right in. Good luck!

Great,that sounds just right, and not too expensive! I am going to Manchester next month to bring my sister back to France for a holiday, so I will go shopping with her. She is also going to the wedding of her great-nephew and we can pootle round the Trafford Centre and have lunch together.

Greatnan Cream or ecru wedges offer a little lift together with stability. A small, neat handbag with a thin chain for hanging over the wrist (keep hands free for greeting and ) ...you, my dear, will look amazing.

Some of you might have got the impression from some of my posts that I am a right 'know-it-all' - so now you know there is at least one subject about which I know absolutely nothing! (As well as cooking, gardening, botany, embroidery.......'

Ah, Shoes! The only decent ones I have are black patent with 1" heels - an impusle buy and never worn. I don't think I could wear anything higher these days. Shall I go for some smart cream leather flatties, or wedges? And do I need a matching handbag?

Exactly, Harrigran!

My DD and I both wore trouser suits to the palace, as did 75% of the other women there that day.
I wore a cream silk/chiffon trouser suit when DS got married and I had so many compliments. My DIL wore scarlet and gold so my outfit was in no way bridal looking.
Go for it Greatnan you will look fabulous

It sounds perfect Greatnan. I have lots of wedding photos with guests wearing beautiful lightweight trouser suits and looking fabulous, especially because of comfort and avoidance of high heels, which can wear you out after being on show all day.