We have had various threads where people have expressed their views quite forcefully about which newspaper others read , people who are supposed benefit-scroungers or have been to public school etc, etc, but how good are you at seeing people and situations from a non-prejudiced point of view?
My feeling is that we all (especially as we get older) have different preconceptions but, if we accept that we have them, we can then learn to ignore them or work round them.
In Isle of Wight vernacular the word queer means angry or cross. I remember a school friend of mine who was staying for a week bursting into a fit of giggles as we were heading for the beach. An upstairs window was suddenly thrown open and a girl yelled across the road to her mates, ' I'm not coming out...Me dad's queer!'
AlisonMA The meaning of queer hasn't changed; it just acquired a new meaning which, because it is pejorative, prevents us from using the word with its old meaning (as a general rule). Gay, of course, did a similar thing (without being pejorative) but then I doubt if we grannies would have talked about being gay in the old sense of the word – though, perhaps, we are a bunch of jolly old birds.
Yes, I do feel a slight sense of ownership when I start a thread, but I am very happy to send it on its merry way and wander wither it will! Now, how does it decline? I am eccentric, you are weird, he is bonkers. I think I am perfectly normal, but the rest of the world is a bit strange.
What's with all the 'slightly' and 'little' you are just not trying! DS2 proudly told his friends at school that his mother was completely mad. Please try harder
I quite like the notion of lobbing in a grenade cuckoo's egg every now and then and seeing what happens . Ownership?
Many of the threads I've started have wandered off topic, or not spawned much interest at all. That's just the way of forum conversations. It's not a sign of anything, except perhaps that we're normal.