J04 I hate conflict. On the other hand, I'm certainly no pushover. So here goes. You seem to enjoy "stirring" and recently, you managed to hurt the feelings of a few very nice members. Why do you do it? You wouldn't be so abrasive with strangers in a supermarket queue, would you? After you've ruffled a few feathers, you stroll away and lie low for a day or so. Then, as if nothing untoward had happened, in you come and make light of what I consider to be your BAD manners. At first, I thought that you were amusing. I'm sorry to say that I have most certainly changed my mind. We'll steer clear of each other from hereon.