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gracesmum Thu 13-Sep-12 09:16:00

Ouch! Credit card bill came yesterday. Since retiring I have made a point of clearing it every month, but the last 9 months have given it a bit of a hammering - 3 months of up and down from London when DH in hospital, then with his ESA stopped so I paid for any "extras" or treats, outfit for daughter's wedding etc etc Anyway, I panicked a bit, rushed to online savings account and took out shedloads of money to clear the card. Whew! However, can't really afford to do that again so Plan B comes into action:
CUT SPENDING
My free signed copy of feeding your family for £5 a day is a move in the right direction, but I need to do more with the C season also approaching.
I have decided to bin mail order catalogues (bye bye Hotter, Kettlewell, Lakeland, Wall etc) on receipt, stop "cutting through" M&S and John Lewis just on the "off chance", stop looking at the Amazon Daily Deals (those 99p s can add up) and NOT BUY ANY CLOTHES . I have enought to "see me out as my Dad used to say, but that has never been a reason not to look, touch, try on and (not any more) buy.
My direct debits are things like Pet Insurance, so can't cut that out and I have also cancelled next hair appointment and willl be scouting around for cheaper alternative (my hairdresser took her DH to Dubai for his 40th! I must have been paying too much)
Popping up to the pub for lunch now and then is one of the few pleasures (sad old dear) in life as is meeting up with friends, but those who are still working think nothing of £20 for a quick supper and I can'tdo that every week.Other helpful suggestions gratefully received! I don't want to be miserable, just in control.

johanna Thu 13-Sep-12 19:13:50

Very true merlot.
And you will need a signed thingy every time from now on. ( Yearly? )
It is a pain, but at least you will have covered yourselves.

merlotgran Thu 13-Sep-12 19:25:22

A friend of mine nearly decked the bloke when he wrote a negative comment on her precious certificate. She had two broken tiles in the hearth! shock DH can't stand the man so I'm going to have to arrange a day when he's out fishing. Why does everything have to be so complicated these days?

Grannyknot Fri 14-Sep-12 14:36:18

merlot grin 'decked the bloke'

glassortwo Fri 14-Sep-12 14:45:06

merlot that made me chuckle grin

Granny23 Fri 14-Sep-12 18:12:10

When I was made redundant it took 3 months for the redundancy money to come through. I had my last month's salary in the bank and an income of nearly £50 a week from job seekers allowance. I determined to live on that amount only without touching savings and managed perfectly well, in the end for 6 months, until I found another job. By that time I had depleted the once overstocked freezer and larder and nearly used up my store of cleaning stuff. I quiet enjoyed the challenge for six months but the pleasure was wearing thin by the time I was working again. Still we had no additional debt and the redundancy money went straight into savings.

As to clothes, when the 'must have something new' lust takes over I take myself to the nearby town which has 6 Thrift Shops, with only £20 in my purse. Usually come home with a whole new outfit or at least a couple of items which will spice up my existing wardrobe, new or nearly new and brands that I could not normally afford.

harrigran Fri 14-Sep-12 18:56:10

I always buy cleaning materials, bin liners and detergents in Aldi, saves a fortune, I don't see the point in pouring money down the toilet. Their loo rolls are good too.

merlotgran Fri 14-Sep-12 19:05:29

We don't have an Aldi but I find Wilkinsons really cheap for all household stuff and dog food. I buy their paint as well when decorating. Just as good as Dulux and Crown and much cheaper.

glassortwo Fri 14-Sep-12 21:12:32

I only started shopping in Aldi about 1 yr ago but I was astounded on how much my shopping bill has come down, if I go in there first and then go to the bigger supermarkets to finish my shopping I can make a huge saving.

Greatnan Fri 14-Sep-12 21:20:17

We have a Netto (cheap) and an Intermarche (less cheap) on the same site. I shop first at Netto, especially for tinned stuff, then go on to the better shop for more choice in yoghurts, cheeses, and cooked meats.
I can get corned beef here now, which makes excellent hash (with my imported gravy granules!) Two meals for about £2.

glassortwo Fri 14-Sep-12 21:30:20

greatnan I love corned beef hot pot its a winter comfort food, and it used to be a cheap meal when the Dc were little.

Greatnan Fri 14-Sep-12 21:43:08

Do you like it with brown sauce, or beetroot slices?

Grannylin Fri 14-Sep-12 21:49:11

Piccalilli...!

whenim64 Fri 14-Sep-12 22:00:29

Mmmm....corned beef hash with pickled red cabbage or beetroot. True comfort food smile

glassortwo Fri 14-Sep-12 22:30:32

A little brown sauce, but I love beetroot so I will give it a whirls next time I make corned beef hotpot.

Marelli Fri 14-Sep-12 22:35:20

I'm so glad I looked at this thread! When I read the title, I thought it was about the weather, so didn't read any of it! It's been so interesting to read other people's ideas and what works for them. I shop at Aldi, catching the bus there (bus pass!) then walking a little distance to the store. I don't buy more than I can carry in two calico bags which will go over my shoulder. Then I walk back over and either catch a bus back or, if I time it right, a train for which the fare is 50p! Odds and ends are bought at places like Home Bargains or Poundland, both of which are very good for branded items.
My clothes I buy from charity shops, mainly. I always seek out good labels and also buy clothes on ebay. I also sell my clothes on ebay!
We got rid of the car a year ago, and certainly haven't missed it - especially the expense of running it! I do use my credit card occasionally, but make myself pay it off by the end of the month. If it's something a bit big, where I can't pay it off in the month, then I arrange my outgoings so that amounts will be paid into the account every week until it is paid off. I do online banking, which is really useful, as it lets me check my finances on a daily basis and helps me keep on top of things. smile

glassortwo Fri 14-Sep-12 22:40:33

Marelli I thought it was about the weather too grin

Anagram Fri 14-Sep-12 22:49:07

And me! confused

gracesmum Sat 15-Sep-12 15:06:53

Best laid plans etc This week I have had to buy birthday presents for 2 sisters in law, DH, SIL's mum and also hit Waitbury's and our local butcher for the wherewithal for a family lunch tomorrow. Oh and not forgetting a special cake for DH! Ah well, next week!

annodomini Sat 15-Sep-12 15:24:53

I have taken to buying presents from Amazon and from Ebay traders. You can find some very individual things on Ebay made by craftspeople who market their products on line. My DiL has a birthday tomorrow. Notified by DS that she wanted some silver drop earrings, I found the very thing on Amazon at a very reasonable price. I'd really have liked them myself!

harrigran Sat 15-Sep-12 18:21:31

It is not just the gifts, I usually end up spending quite a lot on cake, balloons and gift bags all adds up to an expensive day.

Marelli Sat 15-Sep-12 18:28:40

I've had a bad week with birthdays too! DGD's boyfriend's 21st, son-in-law's, DD's, all in the course of one week.....I've not used my credit card, but I know that when I check my balance online on Monday, I'll have to have a very 'thin' week next week....bread and scrape again, I think! hmm

Greatnan Sat 15-Sep-12 19:16:56

Not a good week for my finances - £2,000 for air fares and car rentals, and my property tax bill arrived. My annual water rate is due, and I have a trip of over 420 miles to make next month to do a house exchange to the Pyrenees. Definitely a time for 'drawing in my horns' and eating frugal meals! I love travel, but it comes at a price!

Butternut Sat 15-Sep-12 19:25:51

It certainly does greatnan - but worth the frugal meals! smile

Ian42 Sat 15-Sep-12 20:43:12

I've got some sound advice about credit cards, get rid off them you will never pay them off. I got into debt with a credit card, and slowly and painfully paid it off. Use some scissors and cut it into thin strips and rid yourself off it before it takes over your life. There should be a written warning with a credit card; it can mess your life up.

Marelli Sat 15-Sep-12 20:46:09

It can do so, but only if you're not careful, Ian42. I can manage mine very well. smile