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gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 18:12:28

Yesterday I found myself giving sideways glances at any ladies of a certain age wearing anything which could remotely be described as purple!!
And on our way back to the station we saw lots of "girlies" up in Brum for a night out with legs up to their armpits ,vertiginous heels (and certainly no vests) looking like they were about to audition for the X factor. This morning I met a rather grand elderly-ish lady in our village shop wearing typical "no nonsense" clothes - sensible shoes, good thick tights/stockings, waterproof gilet and a very serviceable skirt of a very decent length, a bit of a social stereotype.The sort who says "It's getting cold, throw another dog on the bed" smile
And I wondered how much what we wear is a cliche - or a statement about who or what we perceive ourselves to be? I am also thinking of middle aged (or older) politicians or slebs in jeans while our grandfathers at the same age would have been in suits with hats, female slebs showing far more flesh than they ougher at their age or the ubiquitous teenage uniform of opaque tights under denim shorts,Ugg boots, big hoop earrings and long blonde hair.
What do your clothes say about you? Or do you (maybe unconsciously) dress to a stereotype?
(Willowy blonde, about 5'10 and the right side of 50 apart)

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 22:36:08

shock

harrigran Sun 07-Oct-12 21:37:16

Don't know jeni I have never been in nellie's.

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 21:31:40

FORGOT MY moon
Night all!

harri are these the same ample bosoms as in nellies pub?

DON'T FORGET TO SIGN UP FOR THE HALLOWEEN PARTY.!

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 21:28:25

Bedtime for me! Washing all done. Files for Wednesday read.havent got the ones for mon and tues so will have to deal with on day!shock

harrigran Sun 07-Oct-12 21:28:09

I often wear 1 carat diamond with polyester blouse and don't give a stuff johanna. I often wear very expensive outfits and the end result is the same, I am still a 66 year old who is overweight. I used to like a gilet but they tend to be a bit tight over my ample bosom.

Marelli Sun 07-Oct-12 21:17:27

Sister-in-law's pronunciation: Gillet - like Gullet but with an i grin

gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 21:05:45

I'd say "zhee-lay" too not to be confused with the people who make razors for men!

Greatnan Sun 07-Oct-12 20:45:57

My gilet is bright yellow and hangs over my driving seat so the police can see I have one - compulsory in France. It was only €3. I pronounce it as gee -lay, soft g but more of a zhe....

Lilygran Sun 07-Oct-12 20:37:27

jeni wine

crimson Sun 07-Oct-12 20:37:16

Years ago a friend descibed my look as 'hippy chic' but I now combine it with a touch of 'bag lady'. No, actually a lot of bag lady. My look is limited by having to wear either ugg boots or trainers [mostly trainers sad].

jeni Sun 07-Oct-12 20:14:12

lilygran I agree about the temp. However I never have ice in drinks til the temp reaches 80F

Ana Sun 07-Oct-12 20:13:05

That's the look I aspire to, johanna - rich in a very quiet manner! I've got the quiet manner....

matson Sun 07-Oct-12 20:08:29

how do you pronouce " gilet" isnt it just g i l l e t ?

johanna Sun 07-Oct-12 20:01:18

Yes, clothes are a strange thing, or maybe a very important thing.
When I put on my waterproof gilet, people think I own at least 400 acres, for fun that is, not for farming. And nothing could be further from the truth!..

Well over thirty years ago my OH and friends were at an important horse sale in Dublin.Purely as spectators.
The prospective buyers looked so unbelievably rich in a very quiet manner.
No diamonds or ruby's or any bling whatsoever. However the quality of their clothes was something to behold.
I saw Alpaca suits, Vicuna coats , Hermes scarves, and so on and so on.

So, yes in a subtle way clothes do say a lot.
Wearing a 1 carat diamond with a polyester blouse and a M.& S. handbag
is not going to look the same is it?

Marelli Sun 07-Oct-12 19:59:51

I think mine say that I buy from charity shops and Ebay! grin I'd like to think they said that 'this woman doesn't like to appear older than her years, but doesn't really mind much really'! wink

merlotgran Sun 07-Oct-12 19:57:59

DH reckons a gilet is just a posh bodywarmer. He used to wear his until the quilting was worn flat and shiny and the very thin padding would fall out. blush

Lilygran Sun 07-Oct-12 19:56:02

'She has stopped bothering'. Since I retired from paid employment, the way I dress has been affected by three factors; I don't have the spare cash to spend on a new wardrobe ; I don't have to because I'm not trying to make a good impression; I feel the cold when the temperature is under 70F.

Marelli Sun 07-Oct-12 19:53:58

With a 'hard' G that is. smile

Marelli Sun 07-Oct-12 19:53:24

My sister-in-law pronounces it as gillett. And I'm far too nice to nice to tell her otherwise...confused!

Ana Sun 07-Oct-12 19:46:12

Perhaps Bags meant that a gilet wouldn't keep its wearer waterproof....
Even so, I'm sure the gilet itself could be waterproof.

gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 19:40:43

Gilet (French: gilet, from Spanish: gileco or Spanish: chaleco, ultimately from Turkish: yelek) is a sleeveless jacket resembling a waistcoat or blouse.[1] Currently, a gilet is a sleeveless jacket or vest. They may be waist- to knee-length, and are typically straight-sided rather than fitted. However, historically, they were fitted and embroidered.[2] In a further derivation, in 19th-century dressmaking a gilet was a dress bodice shaped like a man's waistcoat.[3]

Today, gilets are often worn as an outer layer, for extra warmth outdoors. Fashion gilets may be made of cloth or fake fur, or knitted. Sports gilets are often windproof and/or made of fleece. High end hiking jackets often have an integral gilet inside them, that can be zipped on/off. Racing cyclists use thin light gilets with a windproof front and mesh back. Shooting gilets are rugged and made of leather. Gilets were made famous by Lucien Schneller, the Duke of Hungary.
I can just see myself in M&S asking for a size 16 oxymoron!!
(No mention of waterproof above, however) hmm

Grannyknot Sun 07-Oct-12 19:13:20

I can vary from "Janet Street Porter" to "farmer on Countryfile" to "housewife who strayed into an office" to "power dresser" depending on the mood I'm in - note, not the occasion! grin

gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 18:45:18

Sorry !! Sun over the yardarm! (using Cointreau in my orange sauce and had a nip!blush)Meant to say "So that we didn't hug complete strangers"

gracesmum Sun 07-Oct-12 18:44:10

Nothing - it was to identify us so tha we didn'g hug complete strangers.Some people did try to hug a few but they were all male......grin

Greatnan Sun 07-Oct-12 18:43:18

Numberplease - crafty manufacturers make generous sizes. I have never been below a size 12 since I was 17, but when I lived in Monaco and could afford it, I used to buy Parigi in a size 10! I was really size 14/16.