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gracesmum Mon 15-Oct-12 17:10:11

No, this is not about bereavement, but perhaps a similar feeling of "Was it something I/we said?" I too have tried to pm a GNetter only to be told that is not a valid nickname, so susiecb and littlenellie why did you go?
Of course it is your prerogative and I don't mean to be nosey, but it is sad, especially when you suspect there might be trouble at home and can no longer send support. So if either of you is out there under a different name - I wish you well and still hope it wasn't something we said flowers

Ariadne Tue 16-Oct-12 22:17:15

soop love to nellie please. And thank you for letting us know.

merlotgran Tue 16-Oct-12 22:05:52

Thanks, Elegran

Ana Tue 16-Oct-12 21:50:51

glass, I agree. It's humour in the threads that's lacking at the moment - not the more sensitive ones, obviously.

Elegran Tue 16-Oct-12 21:46:43

merlotgran It is on the "A new oven - advice needed!" thread on "Chat"

Bags Tue 16-Oct-12 21:20:50

I agree with grannylin.

merlotgran Tue 16-Oct-12 21:20:10

I'd like to know the answer to this Elegran because I hope to buy a new hob in the January sales grin

Elegran Tue 16-Oct-12 21:18:04

I have just seen what I thought was going to be a joke on another thread "What's the difference between a ceramic hob and an induction hob?" but it turned out to be a genuine question.

Greatnan Tue 16-Oct-12 20:55:46

I do try - perhaps a few other members could post a few jokes?

glassortwo Tue 16-Oct-12 20:53:03

Thats whats wrong on GN at the minute the humour has disappeared!

Faye Tue 16-Oct-12 20:52:30

soop please pass on all our messages, I enjoyed her posts too. sad

grrrranny Tue 16-Oct-12 20:29:29

soop Please pass on my real sadness that nellie has left. I don't post often but I was humbled by her story and amazed by her strength and her humour and her whole attitude to life. In my personal opinion, GN was the better for her being here. I am sorry if my opinion is too late for her to hear.

annodomini Tue 16-Oct-12 20:24:38

Nfk smile

Grannylin Tue 16-Oct-12 20:23:16

The last thread I read, I got the impression that she had opened up too far and maybe regretted it slightly and needed to retreat.Perhaps we should just respect that.

NfkDumpling Tue 16-Oct-12 20:15:38

I've not been around on GN long, but what I really like is the supportiveness from everyone when someone is in trouble - and often frank opinions which probably wouldn't be possible from a close friend as it may upset. But when it does it's usually followed by profuse apologies as chatting in this way is really quite difficult!
But I like feel that you're chatting to acquaintances over coffee, or a face you vaguely know at the bus stop, something which can be walked away from or develop into deeper friendship.
The last thread I saw involving Nellie was when she was starting her new job and there were flowers, support and best wishes from everyone. I do hope she comes back - she seems like a lovely lady.

annodomini Tue 16-Oct-12 20:06:05

Was it something one of us said? She was a life-enhancing presence in our Forums. Please give her my love soop and tell her we miss her.

glassortwo Tue 16-Oct-12 19:59:13

My love to nellie please soop when you next text.

Marelli Tue 16-Oct-12 19:48:21

Oh no - I'm so sorry to hear that nellie's upset and unhappy! Why haven't we come over as more supportive to her - she needs that from us. I feel as if we've let her down in some way. sad

POGS Tue 16-Oct-12 17:58:18

Bags

Well I did say 'reasonably' new. I think it's about 5 months so maybe I should have not made the statement, not sure now I said the right thing. blush

Thanks though smile

Bags Tue 16-Oct-12 17:18:55

Are you new, pogs? Well I never! Just shows how easily some people fit in smile.

Love to nellie from me too, please, soop.

Mishap Tue 16-Oct-12 17:15:22

Some people reappear on grannynet I think.

Elegran Tue 16-Oct-12 16:48:21

Mine too soop

numberplease Tue 16-Oct-12 16:22:04

Soop, please give Nellie my best wishes, she seemed like a nice lady.

soop Tue 16-Oct-12 16:13:24

Greatnan your comments on Nellie are really kind. I shall pass on all your messages. I doubt that she will reconsider. Her text really knocked the stuffing out of me. I had no idea that she was unhappy. That's bad! I should have known better.

POGS Tue 16-Oct-12 15:34:17

I know I am resonably new to G.N. but I had noticed Nellie was missing from my favourite thread 'Lils Bar'

I bet you all miss her terribly on there. sad

I thought Jo 4 was on holiday. I certainly will miss her too I enjoyed her 'sparky' input very much. sad

POGS Tue 16-Oct-12 15:27:15

Flickety

I really like your perceptive view. smile