I empathise with the Gma who said her first husband. Mine haunted my dreams for years. In these nightmares I was always trying to get away - on a train, but I couldn't. In reality I did, and have had a happy second marriage for over 30 years now. It just shows how deeply scarred I am by that first relationship - which lasted for 20 years - we met when I was just 15. Perhaps its my subconscious reminding me how much I value what I have now and how much I love my second husband.
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I'd have woken up upset too vampirequeen.
or that I have a baby which gets smaller and smaller until it disappears altogether. How screwed up does that make me s und? 