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I Dread Christmas, 2012

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JessM Fri 09-Nov-12 13:40:20

Feeling the need to have a thread that is not full of seasonal jollity. OK at the moment, but it is looming (and other GNners are starting to post about their preparations)
Never liked it. Kids and GKds in southern hemisphere. Have to put on brave face. That's me.

Jodi Sun 16-Dec-12 00:05:37

Bah! humbug! envy [fbiscuit] why is the fbiscuit emoticon still dysfunctional?
More bah! Humbug!

CHEELU Sat 15-Dec-12 23:23:03

PS I really do like Christmas, it is a reason to be happy and give gifts, and for me it was the only time that my Mum ever seemed happy to spend any time with us.

CHEELU Sat 15-Dec-12 23:21:47

JessM why dont you like Christmas--people usually have a reason, My Dad did not like Christmas because my brother died 24 December and my husband does not like Christmas because he says that everywere is closed!!

Nanadog Sat 15-Dec-12 13:54:11

jeni & yoga smile

yogagran Sat 15-Dec-12 13:18:03

My thoughts too Jeni

jeni Sat 15-Dec-12 13:07:35

Some of us don't say a lot but thoughts and prayers are with all who grieve

whenim64 Sat 15-Dec-12 12:45:15

Nanadog good to have you back amongst us. There's always a friendly shoulder around here flowers

Smoluski Sat 15-Dec-12 12:26:13

nanad flowers

Ana Sat 15-Dec-12 12:21:28

I'm so glad you felt our support, Nanad - such a sad time must be hard enough to get through without added bad news to add to your pain. I hope you're feeling a little stronger today smile flowers

Nanadog Sat 15-Dec-12 12:16:41

soop and stansgran sorry xxx

Nanadog Sat 15-Dec-12 12:12:42

Thank you crimson, Ana, Whenim64, Faye, Phoenix, GrannyActivust, Ella46, Nemonan, Gracesmum, Nfk, Anno, Sel, VampireQ, celebgran, NanaNel, Marelli, Butty, London, grannylin, Jodi, Ariadne, Smoluski and Night Owl I do hope I've not forgotten anyone, please forgive me if I have.
You're kind thoughts followed me these last two weeks. It's the first time I've ever felt supported at this time, and a big anonymous thanks to one person in particular who has helped me 'when the nights have been too lonely and the path has been too long'.
I know there can sometimes be trouble and strife on GN, but there is also the helping hands and kind wishes of so many and I'd like to return you kind wishes flowers

Yesterday was my little grandson's Angel Day. I cried buckets and when I thought I was all cried out I turned on the news and found I had still more tears inside me.

Marelli Fri 30-Nov-12 18:19:24

Bless you, Butty xx

Butty Fri 30-Nov-12 18:15:43

Marelli x

Marelli Fri 30-Nov-12 18:12:07

Nanadog, there are no words, are there? xx

Butty Fri 30-Nov-12 18:10:17

nanadog I know you'll use your time of remembrance with care, and will look forward to your return. x

Stansgran Fri 30-Nov-12 18:06:08

and Nemonan good luck in the new move and job

london Fri 30-Nov-12 18:05:04

nanadog flowers

Grannylin Fri 30-Nov-12 18:04:55

Take care nanad and good luck Nemonan flowers

Ariadne Fri 30-Nov-12 17:43:46

nanad xxxxxxx

Jodi Fri 30-Nov-12 17:36:38

Nanadog flowers

NanaNel Fri 30-Nov-12 15:55:55

Have felt that pain Nanadog My thoughts are with you.flowers

celebgran Fri 30-Nov-12 15:39:54

nanadog flowers so sorry for your pain, sometimes you just need to be quiet to grieve xx

vampirequeen Fri 30-Nov-12 15:20:31

You will be in my heart nanadog. I know that pain. We're here if you want to talk or just feel us with you. xxxx

Sel Fri 30-Nov-12 15:13:21

Nanadog I hope you find comfort, somehow. Big hug x

annodomini Fri 30-Nov-12 14:18:58

Nanadog, we will miss you and think of you. ((((hugs))))