My grandchildren all ending up calling me "Mad Gran" when they are old enough to get to know me, and my own children think I am much too "alternative".
The grandchildren love it because I will sing and dance along with them in public spaces, sit in the front row of the cinema calling out to the cartoons with them, allowing them to use all my make-up and nail varnish, making a mess in the kitchen etc.etc. I thought all this was "normal" but compared to their other grandparents I am not mainstream, although judging by Gransnet there are a lot of other Mad Grans out there!!! Thank goodness.
My children think I am alternative because I never like to hear "can't, I'm bored, I'm stressed, too busy etc.etc." They will then receive a book in the post, or an article from the Internet which suggests another way forward. My eldest daughter was making my Mum (who is 88) laugh the other day because she was reading out all the titles of books I have sent her over the years in order to help her on her journey through life. My Mum retorted by sharing with her all the Christmas presents I have bought her which are still in the bottom drawer...i.e. footbath, handwarmers, massage brushes etc.etc. They all think I am just too much...but I think they like it really!