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Abbreviating names on Gransnet

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Movedalot Sun 20-Jan-13 12:11:34

How do you feel about having your Gransnet name abbeviated? I just realised that I do it all the time but would never do so if we were face to face unless it was clear that you were happy with it. I would never do it in an email either so why do I do in on Gransnet?

I don't like my real name being abbreviated but am quite happy with all the ways my Gransnet name has been. How odd smile

Smoluski Mon 21-Jan-13 22:29:27

Aww shucks thanks ella

yogagran Mon 21-Jan-13 16:34:05

Our French teacher at school was nicknamed "Smellie" shock

Ella46 Mon 21-Jan-13 16:28:48

With love though smol smile

Smoluski Mon 21-Jan-13 16:18:26

ella renamed me smellie grin

Movedalot Mon 21-Jan-13 16:15:35

That's fine glass, someone called me mal which took a moment to get but I don't mind at all as long as you are not unpleasant in the message. grin

glassortwo Mon 21-Jan-13 16:13:16

moo I have been tempted to shorten your name a few times but it doesnt quite roll off the tongue grin

moomin Mon 21-Jan-13 16:09:03

Well no-one has shortened me to "moo" yet which, I think, is good? wink

ninathenana Mon 21-Jan-13 15:59:53

I like being called Nina here.

It's my abbreviation of one of my real names. The name I'm known by in the real world cannot be shortened.

specki4eyes Mon 21-Jan-13 14:31:15

Absent Utrecht eh? just a stones throw from Notts then...smile

Hunt Mon 21-Jan-13 09:49:35

It can cause a bit of a problem! I was confused with Hunter F and asked if I had had a sex change. Someone said the other day that Hunt was kind . She meant Hunter F and for a moment I thought,'' How nice, but how does she know I'm kind?''

Nelliemoser Mon 21-Jan-13 09:39:47

My name is a one syllable job so never got shortened!

petallus Mon 21-Jan-13 08:51:33

My real name cannot be shortened.

However I was once called peton here and quite liked it.

harrigran Sun 20-Jan-13 23:51:37

DD has the same name as me but she shortened it to three letters as soon as she could talk. DS has DH's middle name as his name and insisted on using the shorter version. Nobody calls them by their given names now.

numberplease Sun 20-Jan-13 22:38:46

I get called number on every forum I go on, so nothing new in it getting shortened on here. I`ve always been called by my middle name, but both my Christian names have only 4 letters, so hard to shorten.

absent Sun 20-Jan-13 21:23:33

specki4eyes Utrecht and then Putney.

Ana Sun 20-Jan-13 21:21:18

There are some names which just do sound more friendly when shortened, aren't there? Kate, for instance, or Kathy, sounds softer and less formal than Katherine.

I went through a rather prissy stage in my early twenties when I thought it was a bit disrespectful to shorten someone's name until I found that a friend just hated me calling her Janet and much preferred 'Jan'. confused

glassortwo Sun 20-Jan-13 21:16:27

23 grin

Ella46 Sun 20-Jan-13 21:15:49

I like people shortening my name, it sounds more friendly.

Granny23 Sun 20-Jan-13 21:14:40

wineor2 Sorry, couldn't resistgrin

specki4eyes Sun 20-Jan-13 21:13:28

Absent that's funny, my father used to call people "Doings" when he couldn't remember their names - he was from Nottinghamshire - I always assumed it was a Notts habit - where did your father originate?

glassortwo Sun 20-Jan-13 21:10:56

I chose my DS name with the intention of using the shorter version when he was older and I cant bring myself to shorten it grin

glassortwo Sun 20-Jan-13 21:09:15

I have never had any problem with people shortening my real name.

absent Sun 20-Jan-13 21:08:13

ano What is it with fathers? Don't you love them?

Deedaa Sun 20-Jan-13 21:00:14

My mother always insisted that my name shouldn't be shortened by anyone and then in her sixties she started shortening it herself! I felt like some one quite different smile

grannyactivist Sun 20-Jan-13 20:49:53

In 'real life' I use my middle name anyway. I really don't mind what abbreviations people use on here. My father in law used to call me 'Fruit' very often when we first met! Now that is a bit weird! confused