HUNTER I wouldn't know where to begin, as your points baffle me, but I'll give it a shot.
Prevention of violence to women in the home, for me, hinges on the ability of humans to know where the boundaries are and treat each other respectfully. Surely that comes from how they are socialised and given guidance, learn how to empathise with one another, and how to manage very strong feelings. Men need to learn how to self-regulate as children, not assume entitlement or the right to invade women's space, when they need privacy and support from one another. Women can feel vulnerable on many levels, and men have the power to exploit this. A good man would never seize those opportunities, but respect that this is how it is.
Women grow up generally learning to nurture and support, and will naturally share or hand over power. Making yourself vulnerable and trusting a man not to take advantage of that is key. Unfortunately, until men learn to say 'no' to themselves, women end up getting hurt physically and emotionally.
Society has a responsibility to enable people to live responsible, respectful lives. By the time little boys are at school, they have learned to believe that they are stronger, louder and more daring than girls. Education has a large part to play in prevention of violence to women and children.
Your question, ideally, could have been 'how can men learn to control themselves so they don't harm women and children?' Sexual aggression, power and control, sense of entitlement - when men learn how to handle and control these aspects of themselves, women start to be safer in their homes.
Men who start using their fists to get control, make threats of violence to intimidate a women into capitulating, or rape her to vent anger and make themselves feel better, have to get themselves re-educated and removed from that environment whilst they do it. A man who genuinely regrets harming women or children will go and get help so he doesn't do it again. That might mean walking into a police station and saving her the trauma of reporting it. We are talking about criminal offences here, after all.
I get the impression you have not involved yourself in discussion of these issues, but there's a wealth of information available, and many men have taken on the responsibility to ensure boys in their families do not abuse their power or develop anti-women attitudes. Please do read the links that Butty provided on here. Examples of wonderful men who get what has gone wrong in society to make women and children vulnerable to attack and abuse, and who strive to help them heal.
By the way, why not accept the ladies only classes you refer to on another thread, and do what women have done for decades - leave them to it and sort something out for yourselves? Peace!
