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j07 Mon 04-Feb-13 14:32:16

Do you ever think when you hear retired teachers communicating, either in real life or on forums, "Ah, so that's where it all started to go wrong"?

Nelliemoser Tue 05-Feb-13 17:45:53

I would not want to be a teacher. The though if standing up in front of even 30 5 yrs old would scare me to death. Good luck to them all.

It takes a strong and confident person to do the job. Some should not be in the job if they cannot keep order or excite the kids about a subject.

My DS was a clever but fidgety easily distracted child. (Still is fidget.) He had a particularly good primary school teacher at 9ish who was quite tough with him. She always complained about his lack of concentration etc, but she understood him very well and he really liked her.

Same with the wonderful Head master at that school. Totally in charge but very kind and well liked by the children and parents.

soop Tue 05-Feb-13 16:25:14

grin

Butty Tue 05-Feb-13 08:18:44

...and there was I thinking GN was a University of Life! wink

Bags Tue 05-Feb-13 07:46:46

As you see. Second cup.... slurp.

Bags Tue 05-Feb-13 07:45:56

Well picked up, absnet grin. I only meant that gransnetters, like any other bunch of people, will cover a whole range of characteristics, and that labels are not really very useful. Hadn,t drunk all my coffe by then.

absent Tue 05-Feb-13 06:46:25

Bags How many people go straight from school to university to Gransnet? shock

Bags Tue 05-Feb-13 05:46:56

Could have added gransnetters to the list.

Bags Tue 05-Feb-13 05:46:37

I think the same could be said about any group of people who happen to have the same label. Bankers, MPs, software engineers, graphic designers, etc. Which proves that they're all human, I suppose. There! Sorted! wink

Galen Mon 04-Feb-13 21:59:36

Couldn't agree more about consultants. Also some Doctors!

NfkDumpling Mon 04-Feb-13 21:16:34

And some hospital consultants.

NfkDumpling Mon 04-Feb-13 21:15:51

Sometimes, just sometimes some teachers who've gone through school, university and straight into teaching, show incredible ignorance of the outside world or problems faced by families outside the shelter of academia.

Just sometimes.

Ariadne Mon 04-Feb-13 20:58:51

Yep!

Galen Mon 04-Feb-13 20:58:02

I was told by one teacher my son was mentally retarded! He has an IQ of 147.+
He was just bored. In a different school he flourished.

Mishap Mon 04-Feb-13 20:48:34

I had two inspiring teachers; two really hopeless ones; and a raft of others who did OK. I guess that is probably a reflection of other professions too.

Movedalot Mon 04-Feb-13 18:29:00

Nostalgia is not what it used to be grin

absent Mon 04-Feb-13 18:02:36

Holding my hands up – there are teachers who can be massively damaging, who belittle and put down and destroy any belief a child or young person may have in themselves. This is, of course, a massive betrayal of their function but it truly happens. There are, equally, hugely inspiring teachers who encourage their pupils/students to look further than they thought and expect more of themselves.

I remember both kinds and sometimes I do hear echoes of the attitude that got it wrong when I overhear ex-teachers – or even current teachers – talking. I have to say I think my life would have taken a completely different course if a couple of things/people had been different – one of them was a teacher. Of course, who knows if it would have been better?

j07 Mon 04-Feb-13 17:50:41

Have replied on other thread

gracesmum Mon 04-Feb-13 17:49:51

When in doubt - let's bash teachers? Or doctors? or nurses? Do you ever stop to think you are being very hurtful? It may seem very witty to you but what about other people's feelings?

j07 Mon 04-Feb-13 17:43:11

My daughter is a teacher!

gracesmum Mon 04-Feb-13 17:41:40

So now we're having to put up with teacher-bashing.
Your reasoning being........................................??
What next?

Bags Mon 04-Feb-13 17:04:53

There is a nice line in Judith O'Reilly's book (the doing good one) about teachers, and healers and rescuers. It's tricky to take it out of context without losing meaning, but I'll try. She talks about the idea of doing good being important in life, and ends the 27 Feb entry with this:
"Do those who believe in the critical importance of doing good for their fellow man carry that belief through to the choice of their job? I find that uplifting, that those in jobs that heal us or teach us or rescue us aren't just taking the pay cheque at the end of the month, but that every day they walk the walk with or without a turban and a sword at their side."

The references to the turban and the sword are via Sikhism, in which apparently the men's turban "acts as a sign of disciplined holiness ... while the sword represents the call to uphold justice and protect the weak."

Nobody becomes, or stays, a teacher just for the money. She's right about that.

j07 Mon 04-Feb-13 15:06:49

Work. In all its many forms.

j07 Mon 04-Feb-13 15:05:44

If there's a wrong end of a stick you can bet your life some people..................!

grin

Stansgran Mon 04-Feb-13 15:05:39

I'm not even a retired anything. I would love to be a retired housewife. What are you a retired of JO?

Ana Mon 04-Feb-13 15:04:18

That obvious, eh? confused grin