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Attitude to age

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Greatnan Sat 09-Feb-13 14:27:34

I have been mulling over my first post and I think people can change. My sister now has a host of serious medical problems but she seems much happier than she used to be. When I visit her, I am always impressed by how stoical she is. When she was young, a headache was always a brain tumour.
I am ecstatic at the moment as I am off to New Zealand on Tuesday for six wonderful weeks in the sun with my lovely family. sunshine

Barrow Sat 09-Feb-13 14:17:21

Nelliemoser top up the glass with wine and spend some time spoiling yourself. We all feel a bit like that sometimes but you can always come onto GN for some support and hugs flowers

FlicketyB Sat 09-Feb-13 14:14:40

Another Pollyanna here, I have to be as DH is more a glass half empty man and to have two us being gloomy all the time would probably drive us both to suicide.

Nelliemoser Sat 09-Feb-13 14:11:33

I am glass half empty right now. I feel a bit as Tanith has described. I vary depending on whether not there is anything really good on the horizon to look forward to.
It goes along with my worrying or ruminating or whatever.

tanith Sat 09-Feb-13 13:34:53

I think I might be a secret glass half empty person, but I fake it and try to be cheerful even if I don't feel it. My sister on the other hand is a full on glass half empty and I have to 'gird my loins' to endure a conversation that consists of half an hour going through her ailments and hospital apps... but at least I realise how trying it is when people whinge and consequently try not to mention ailments and woes when chatting.

Galen Sat 09-Feb-13 13:30:30

Depends on the day?

Greatnan Sat 09-Feb-13 13:13:40

Well, some people did, last time this type of question was asked!
I am a Pollyana, almost always cheerful - annoyingly so, according to my sister, who enjoys a good wallow in misery.

j08 Sat 09-Feb-13 13:12:11

shock grin That "gin" was completely accidental. I am NOT on the hard stuff!!!

j08 Sat 09-Feb-13 13:11:22

And you think anyone is going to admit to being a galss half empty kind of person? [gin]

kittylester Sat 09-Feb-13 13:10:50

Mine's white Barrow wine

I'm quite a positive person and always look for the good things in any situation which sometimes upsets people when they want a bit of a wallow. sad

My mother once, memorably for me, told me that I was 'Too bloody cheerful for my own good' confused

I'm not sure it's a characteristic one can choose or cultivate, I think it's innate.

Barrow Sat 09-Feb-13 13:05:25

I bumped into an old neighbour in the supermarket this morning, while we were chatting I noticed she had quite a lot of shopping in her trolley so asked if her family were coming round to see her. She said it was mostly shopping she did for the old people in her block of flats - she is 87!

It started me thinking about attitude to age, she obviously thinks that age is just a number and although she does have some health problems is a "glass half full" type of person. I have another friend who is not yet 65 who rarely leaves the house, is continuously complaining about her minor ailments and is definitely a "glass half empty" person (when I say she has minor ailments I am not being unkind, she has a little arthritis and needs to watch her cholesterol but thats about it.)

So, are you a "glass half full" or "glass half empty" Me - I'm more like a full glass (preferably with red wine!)