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tee2072 Thu 21-Feb-13 14:11:00

If any of you are MN users, you may recognize my name.

I have come over to Gransnet to drum up support for my inspired campaign. It ties neatly into Let Girls Be Girls and Let Boys and Girls Have Toys (or whatever that one is) and Let Boys Have Clothes (not sure on that name either).

It is: Let Grans Be....something! Yeah, it needs work. grin

Last week I went to Eason, a major retailer, to buy a birthday card for my mother from my 3.9 year old. All of the Grandma, Nanny, Nan etc cards had tea pots or knitting or a combination thereof!

I don't know about the Grans here on Gransnet, but my son's Grandma spent 2 weeks on African safari recently and the year before that went to the Galapagos Islands to see the turtles. She doesn't knit, I am not even sure she likes tea all that much!

So who is with me?

First we need a slogan...

pinkprincess Thu 21-Feb-13 19:05:05

tee2072

I am a grandmother and wish I had the time to go to Africa and the Galapagos!

I do knit, which I have done since I was a child, I drink tea, I have got hair going white, but you will hardly find me in a comfy chair-too busy with my family.

POGS Thu 21-Feb-13 19:12:29

Slushy I know but I just enjoy getting a card. blush I can't knit.

Ariadne Thu 21-Feb-13 19:16:26

Think she's gone off in a MN huff!

Tegan Thu 21-Feb-13 19:19:30

I always struggle with cards because I feel the need to give the 'right' card to that person, but very rarely go to a large shop to look for one. There's usually a small shop roundabouts that sells the sort of card I'm looking for; the last shop that I could always rely on suddenly went a bit tasteless but, thankfully another shop opened nearby that has filled the gap. Although the original shop does have an address of someone that makes embroidered cards to a specific design. I can't buy cards in advance, though [think it's bad karma] so usually have a panic around birthday/anniversary time. I'm sure that there are websites that provide unusual cards for specific occasions as well.

JessM Thu 21-Feb-13 19:21:29

I think we expect a little more in the way of reasoned argument. But then we are not juggling with a toddler, a baby and a boob as well as an iPad, are we...

absent Thu 21-Feb-13 19:22:22

I don't know why anyone on Mumsnet should think those grannies who are also members of Mumsnet would recognise her name. There are thousands of them. I also don't see why we should bother with someone who just joins Gransnet to preach on one issue and teach us to suck eggs. CBA.

NfkDumpling Thu 21-Feb-13 19:28:26

Hey tee , I went on safari last autumn and Ecuador and Galapagos the year before - with Saga! I wonder if your gran was on the same trips?

I do knit and used to knit sweaters to make a bit of extra cash when the kids were young.

I hate pink and cards with sloppy verses inside.

My offspring usually buy me Moonpig type cards - generally rather rude or cheeky ones. I buy the Granny type ones for my mother now 88 but she mentally passed that age over 20 years ago.

I can't think of a slogan which would cover such a wide ranging bunch as the granny generation.

ginny Thu 21-Feb-13 19:33:01

I love handmade cards but who cares what the percieved view of a grandmother is.. I knit, sew, do patchwork and other crafts and bake. I also go to Zumba, socialise, enjoy the theatre and I have swum with turtles, met stingrays and been on safari, sleeping in tents.I'm a Nanna and proud of it but a picture on a card does not define me.

Nelliemoser Thu 21-Feb-13 19:51:07

tee2072
I am aware of your campaign on toys and I have posted a link to this earlier having picked it up from DDs facebook page. I fully agree
with that campaign. I can see your point about the cards as well. I haven't looked at those for a good few years.

I just had a lovely birthday card to NANNA from my very talented 5mnth old GS. He had put footprints on it and written very neatly inside! wink

Seriously the novelty of being a gran has not worn off and getting a very personalised card was lovely Thank you DD baby GS!

I am off to the Canaries on Saturday to look at the Geology. I could knit an unconformity.
Blank looks all round! wink

Orca Thu 21-Feb-13 20:08:08

tee sympathy. I understand. Shame.

Greatnan Thu 21-Feb-13 20:20:39

This great-grandmother is on holiday in NZ, so I have only just logged on!
I snorkel all over the world and live in an isolated village in the French Alps, where I walk alone for many miles up mountains. But I do love tea.
My daughters are both grandmothers, in their late 40's, and the one I am visiting here does kayaking, riding, cycling, running, camping.......
I think most of us appreciate courtesy, so perhaps that makes us seem a bit ancient!

Anne58 Thu 21-Feb-13 20:31:29

I realise that it's not often I make statements like this, but.......I think tee2072 has been INCREDIBLY RUDE !!

(And yes, I did mean to put it in shouty capitals!)

Marelli Thu 21-Feb-13 20:32:59

Rather dismissive, isn't she? hmm

susieb755 Thu 21-Feb-13 20:37:32

personally am a granny, not a gran/nan/ grandma and my DD struggles to find granny card at all ! I am happy to get a granny card whatever the picture , as I love being one!

cant wait till she is old enough to make me one though smile

Galen Thu 21-Feb-13 20:37:37

Who Phoenix?

Anne58 Thu 21-Feb-13 20:40:56

Who what, Galen ? confused

Marelli Thu 21-Feb-13 20:41:22

No Galen - tee2072. smile

Ana Thu 21-Feb-13 20:45:17

Young people of today....tut! wink

Anne58 Thu 21-Feb-13 20:46:06

Oh, I see now! Sorry, stick, wrong end etc blush

Galen Thu 21-Feb-13 20:46:14

Oh!smile

Marelli Thu 21-Feb-13 20:48:15

grin!

Galen Thu 21-Feb-13 20:50:09

smile

Galen Thu 21-Feb-13 20:51:09

I've given up unnecessary words for lent!

gracesmum Thu 21-Feb-13 21:39:50

Have just worked out CBA and I agree. Actually I don'treally like "personalised" cards Mum, Gran,,etc unless they are outstanding cards and maybe ironic. I like funny (but not excessively crude) cards, I like photographs, paintings, flowers, those old fashioned photographs with new captions etc (Have you seen the one of the man in a very 50's home knitted jumper with a caption somthing like "Rupert was hoping his mother would stop knitting for him") Those make me smile as do New Yorker and Punch cartoons. In fact I am very easy to please. And if the little DGS were to buy me a card with a knitting Nana on it I would be just as thrilled. So, tee2072 - your point is?

Bags Thu 21-Feb-13 21:53:36

Pink Sticks is what she needs, and she should check out Graffiti Grannys before she is snooty about knitting. They do some awesome stuff.