Hello thomasalfie2 and welcome to Gransnet. People dip in and out during the day, so sometimes people take time to respond to posts. absent's advice is helpful; if you click on the Active box (scroll up to top left) you'll see what topics are current and you can just click on the links and join in the conversation.
Glassortwo lives with her children and grandchildren and when has lots of twins in the family. I'm sure you'll soon get to know regular posters and find a listening ear.
My husband often works away and it can be a bit wearing at times, but fortunately the youngsters still at home are of the non-stroppy variety. 