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JessM Wed 13-Mar-13 06:28:19

Aw gracesmum hope you have a nice day. You deserve to. flowers

Gorki Wed 13-Mar-13 06:13:47

Have a nice relaxing day if you can.

Bags Wed 13-Mar-13 05:59:13

gracesmum, Happy Birthday! sunshine cupcake wine

Gally Wed 13-Mar-13 00:12:44

HAPPY BIRTHDAY gracesmum flowerswinesunshinecupcake

Jadey Tue 12-Mar-13 23:58:33

That was such a brilliant story G, amazing, people were made of stronger stuff in those days, I remember my Nan telling me stories like that.

G now I know where you get your strenght of character from smile.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wine

What are you going to do for your B Day

Galen Tue 12-Mar-13 23:14:13

flowerswine

harrigran Tue 12-Mar-13 23:09:16

Computer is playing up tonight, no message there last time I looked now it is there in duplicate confused

harrigran Tue 12-Mar-13 23:06:36

Wishing you a Happy Birthday for Wednesday gracesmum flowers

harrigran Tue 12-Mar-13 23:05:59

Wishing you a Happy Birthday for Wednesday gracesmum flowers

Wheniwasyourage Tue 12-Mar-13 22:35:08

What a touching story, gracesmum. We don't know how lucky we are these days, do we? I hope your mum's life turned out to be easier later on.

Have a very happy birthday tomorrow, and congratulations on reaching another milestone! wineflowerssunshine

gracesmum Tue 12-Mar-13 22:26:39

65 years ago tomorrow, a German war bride in a small Scottish town felt that contractions were probably sufficiently advanced for some action to need taking, so she picked up her little suitcase and walked, alove, 3/4 mile up the hill into the town to her MIL's house which was next to her FIL's printing business where her DH the eldest son, worked with his father and brother. Her MIL, not entirely unsympathetic, but feeling this was no big deal, agreed that Yes she should get along to the hospital so she carried on along the High Street to the local Cottage Hospital. Her DH accompanied her but didn't go in of course, you didnt in those days. In fact he went back to the office and awaited developments. She spoke some English but it was her first baby and I imagine she was pretty scared of an unfamiliar situation in a strange country where until very recently the only good German had been a dead German. I believe the midwife was kind, if a bit brusque.
I arrived in due course and my father brought my 7 year old stepsister along to "meet" me after she came out of school with a bunch of daffodils she had picked from our next-door neighbours' garden(!)
How very different from nowadays - ante-natal care, supportive fathers present at the birth, paternity leave, even the offer of a lift to the hospital!
I wonder how on earth my poor Mum coped with the apparent indifference and the expectation that she "had to get on with it".

Thanks Mum flowers