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The mis-use of the word Diva

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dorsetpennt Sat 23-Mar-13 14:41:34

According to the OED the word Diva means a highly distinguished female singer. Maria Callas being an excellent example. Now it seems to mean a woman who thinks highly of herself, has a huge sense of entitlement, can be as rude as she likes as she is a 'diva'. I've heard women refer to their brattish daughters as a 'right little diva' quite proud of the fact. Why are so many words mis-used to such an extent? Another example: we had a corner pub in my area called 'The Hogs Head' it had been there for many years. It was bought out and completely refurbished and given a new name - The Libertine. A libertine is a dissolute person - Casanova being a prime example. I asked the pub manager why had they given the pub such a horrible name. He was amazed that I thought it was a horrible name as didn't libertine mean freedom?
So it appears that quite a few people have no idea about the meanings of many words. Obviously dictionaries are a thing of the past.

absent Sun 24-Mar-13 19:28:58

POGS This has been one of those contentious subjects on GN before – at least twice, I think. I think anno is right that only a very few soldiers are actual heroes, although many of them perform their duties and behave well. Some fireman, some policeman and some civilians are too. Whether a charity fundraiser or a gold medal winning Olympic athlete is a hero is another matter. Tricky use of the word in some contexts.

POGS Sun 24-Mar-13 17:11:55

anno

That's where we differ, that is 'exactly' when I think it should be used.

annodomini Sun 24-Mar-13 17:01:26

I get really annoyed when 'hero' is applied to anyone in military uniform. They cannot possibly all be heroes in the strictest meaning of the term. But that's the tabloids for you.

POGS Sun 24-Mar-13 16:49:20

It's the same for the use of the word 'Hero'.

I get really annoyed when the term 'Hero' is applied to sportsmen/women etc.

absent Sun 24-Mar-13 15:54:57

Nelliemoser I agree with you about the pleasures of language evolving to match the times. However, it is quite sad when you lose a useful word. Now, if you want to use diva in its original sense rather than as meaning showing off and conceited or a successful pop star who may or may not actually be able to sing, you have to use at least two words.

Nelliemoser Sun 24-Mar-13 15:49:58

So what! I don't think it's misuse at all. Its just a change of use and most people will know what you mean by it. As others have said its another term for a prima donna with all the overtones of behaviour that has.

Think what has happened since Nixons "Watergate" 1972 incident. anything that reeks of scandal or corruption has this "gate" suffix and most people know exactly what it means.

I love this way of using language. Our language would be so much poorer if these expressions did not evolve.

Movedalot Sun 24-Mar-13 12:57:47

Going to see Il Divo soon. smile

dorsetpennt Sun 24-Mar-13 09:49:33

smile @ Galen

annodomini Sat 23-Mar-13 20:39:48

blush how could I forget them!

dustyangel Sat 23-Mar-13 20:30:00

Il Divo,all four of them?

Ana Sat 23-Mar-13 19:57:56

Divo, surely?

annodomini Sat 23-Mar-13 19:46:43

The star - usually a soprano - of the opera would be regarded as a kind of goddess. Is there a male equivalent? I can't think of one.

Maniac Sat 23-Mar-13 19:37:00

I always thought that 'Diva' meant Goddess (from the Latin)
The famous aria 'Casta Diva 'means literally 'Chaste Goddess'!

Galen Sat 23-Mar-13 16:32:27

hmm perhaps!

BAnanas Sat 23-Mar-13 16:18:12

Galen I was being slightly facetious, I cited Alum Chine as a homage to doresetpennt cos she lives in Bournemouth, although having said that it is kind of awesome!

absent Sat 23-Mar-13 16:08:21

Galen Maybe not but it's still closer to awesome than a cup of a coffee is. grin

Galen Sat 23-Mar-13 16:03:40

Alum chine? Awesome?nice maybe.

absent Sat 23-Mar-13 16:02:35

dorsetpennt I wonder if you aware that we have a dedicated forum – Pedants' Corner – for just this sort of thread. smile

absent Sat 23-Mar-13 16:01:31

One of my dictionaries actually specifies a celebrated opera singer so that would leave out Pink wouldn't it?

Charismatic is one of the misused words that gets on my nerves. Nowadays it just generally means well-known and sexy. It's certainly lost any association with the Christian church.

Movedalot Sat 23-Mar-13 15:52:47

I used to work with an American jew and she used the expression Jewish American Princess (JAP) and said that it was not necessary to be Jewish, American or a Princess to be one. I think she was using that to mean the same as the current use of Diva.

Language changes all the time though, so perhaps this new use will soon make it into the dictionary.

I just googled it and got: "Diva is Europe's only mainstream lesbian magazine. UK news, details of the latest issue, an online shop, e-cards and a chat forum called the Blue Room."

BAnanas Sat 23-Mar-13 15:04:31

Awesome! very over used, particularly in America. Whilst there last summer whenever a waiter took an order for even say coffee, they would respond with "awesome!" I don't think so, the Northern Lights, the Grand Canyon,The Hanging Gardens of Babylon, Alum Chine all awesome quite possibly, a coffee with milk definitely not. Another overused word, more homegrown, has to be "devastated" to describe a whole range of perceived disasters from losing a mobile phone, to being rejected by the X Factor Panel. A ridiculous word when used in the wrong context.

positivepam Sat 23-Mar-13 15:00:49

Love it grannyactivist how true.

positivepam Sat 23-Mar-13 14:58:47

I totally agree dorsetpent and of course some words have been given a different meaning altogether. Of course we are lucky if children actually leave school knowing how to spell never mind knowing the meaning of words and how to use them. I do not think that texting has helped because if you don't care how words are spelled you do not bother to use the dictionary to look them up. I still use my dictionary and keep it handy because there are always words I still come across that I either need to check the spelling of or not sure of the meaning. And I love crosswords so a dictionary is very useful. smile

grannyactivist Sat 23-Mar-13 14:53:11

Perhaps it goes something like this:
Diva = Prima Donna.
Prima Donna = A temperamental, conceited person.
Therefore: Diva = A temperamental, conceited person.

Galen Sat 23-Mar-13 14:48:38

As theydontseem to teach the English language at school any more, I am not surprised!