thank you all for your encouragement and kind words,will be working in the little market town of swaffham which is a lovely real old high street with shops as opposed to one stop shopping..I am looking forward to getting to know people by their names and being part of a community,I couldn't face all the hustle and bustle of Lynn or the city,although it is a very busy pharmacy ...hopefully will be able to continue with the voluntary work one day a week as I enjoy it,and the position is part time although waiting to hear how many hours ..it could be up to 30 E goes to school nearby and when dropping OH off to get his bus for lynn we can go for a hot drink before school or meet up after so have some quality time together......am so scared to be this happy and hopeful,it case it gets snatched away again