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absent Mon 10-Jun-13 21:54:02

I am now at the beginning of my fifth week in New Zealand and the childcare has been especially hands-on as absentdaughter and family are moving to their new home on Thursday. Consequently, I have had the grandchildren staying every weekend since I arrived - including the national holiday Monday at the beginning of June - in addition to the agreed after school care on Mondays and Fridays and all day Thursday with the little ones to free up time for packing up the contents of their house. It's wonderful, if exhausting, but I had forgotten how noisy a house full of children can be. It's not just the conversations held at shouting pitch, the screaming with laughter and the arguments and tears, but also the galumphing in and out of rooms and the constant opening and closing of the door as they go out to play outside and then come back inside. I had also forgotten how much juice they can consume, not to mention the staggering quantities of food they get through. None of the children is fat but they get through prodigious quantities of fruit, crisps, crackers and biscuits in addition to what can only be described as three very square meals per day. I had forgotten the constant stream of questions and chat, the paintings and models to be admired, the endless requests (for snacks, to go to the park, to find a prize for a treasure hunt, to play snap, etc.)

I'm not complaining - far from it - just saying that I had forgotten and I am still forgetting from one weekend to the next, once the headache has gone, the fridge has been restocked and I have refilled the fruit basket. grin

janeainsworth Mon 10-Jun-13 22:01:39

Absent Glad it's going wellgrin
Have you found a house yet?

Greatnan Mon 10-Jun-13 22:06:23

It sounds great, absent.....give my love to Wakefield!

Notso Mon 10-Jun-13 22:17:16

It sounds just perfect!

Granny23 Mon 10-Jun-13 22:45:27

Glad you are enjoying round the clock grandparenting. I am sure the DGC are having a whale of a time with you. As to the NOISE!! - I never could stand it and had my own DD's well trained to be quiet in the house. I have trained the DGC who now understand that their right ears are a volume control which can be turned down if they get too loud. I say shhhh and they turn their ears and calm down. Only works at Granny and Granpa's house though. The noise at their own homes, especially if they have friends round is earsplitting shock

merlotgran Mon 10-Jun-13 22:54:27

Sounds like The Waltons, absent.

G'Night, Grandma grin

absent Mon 10-Jun-13 23:32:14

Granny23 An excellent plan that I shall try out with my mob of rioters.

janeainsworth Not sure that well is the adverb I would have chosen. hmm The goods and chattels are not due to dock until mid-July and then it can take a while to clear customs, so we are renting a furnished house until the beginning of August. Once absentdaughter and family have moved into their wonderful brand new house later this week there should be some time to look nearby for somewhere more permanent for us to live. We shall rent (unfurnished) for a while until the housing market picks up in the UK and I can sell at least one house there to buy one here.

merlotgran grin grin

harrigran Mon 10-Jun-13 23:54:28

absent you are having a busy time, hope you get some you time too smile

sunseeker Tue 11-Jun-13 09:32:41

Sounds as if you are loving every minute of it!

Marelli Tue 11-Jun-13 09:50:11

shockgrin! I have this picture in my mind, absent.....!

glassortwo Tue 11-Jun-13 09:52:18

absent it sounds perfect, and I can sense the grin on your face from here smile only advice I can give is make sure you and Mr A recharge your batteries inbetween visits. wink

annodomini Tue 11-Jun-13 10:09:27

I use the volume control trick with my eldest grandson (9) who has quite a penetrating voice especially when he is making a point in an argument - frequently!
You are clearly having a whale of a time, absent - it's all coming up to expectations and more!

gillybob Tue 11-Jun-13 10:44:21

You sound to have been "thrown in at the deep end" in the nicest possible way Absent . Obviously you have so much time to catch up on and it really sounds like you are catching up fast! It does make you wonder where children put all of this food they consume doesn't it? Hope your "new life" is everything you hoped it would be. smile

Mishap Tue 11-Jun-13 12:04:55

Keeps you young! - enjoy!

numberplease Tue 11-Jun-13 15:24:42

Glad you`re "enjoying" your new life Absent!

Movedalot Tue 11-Jun-13 17:25:38

Good to hear you are so happy.