Have lived and worked in and around Reading for most of my life and seen it grow from a country town surrounded by countryside to the centre of a huge urban sprawl that has encompassed all of eastern Berkshire. That is why nearly 20 years ago we moved nearly 30 miles to the north west, while still staying within the old bounds of Berkshire.I still visit it regularly, several times a month, and have friends there but when I go there I am always glad to head home.
Since the trains reached Reading it has been too close to London. The town's rail connections make most of Britain accessible by rail. But too many people live in Reading for convenience but commute in or out for work. The Hexagon is a great theatre but rarely attracts really top touring companies, London is too close.
The town centre is, and always has been dominated, by chain stores, independent shops disappeared decades ago. Even in the 1950s when we lived between Reading and Oxford. Reading was where my mother went for school uniforms, underwear, and humdrum household items. Oxford was where she went for anything nice or stylish. When we lived and I worked in Reading I still preferred to catch the train to Guildford or Bath to shop.
Sorry to be so down on Reading. I have lived there, was educated there as were my children but I have spent 50 years trying to belong to Reading without success. It is such a jelly fish of a town.