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kittylester Mon 16-Sept-13 07:17:54

And, if you do, can you recommend any or do they all end up as bad tempered battles for supremacy and the moral high ground? sad

Having been a member of gn since early on, I am really unhappy about the vitriol often unleashed on here. The odd spat is understandable but GN seems to have a large number of, mostly new posters, who delight in creating discord.

So, can anyone recommend any general forums like GN used to be.

Ana Wed 18-Sept-13 21:14:59

Quite. As I implied in my post of 19.31.

Greatnan Wed 18-Sept-13 21:12:29

But which others? If my friends and my 'not friends' described me, neither would recognise the other's description.

POGS Wed 18-Sept-13 21:01:07

As the saying goes 'To see ourselves as others see us'. grin

Ana Wed 18-Sept-13 19:45:33

Quite a few of us on here! grin

absent Wed 18-Sept-13 19:43:31

jingle That was a tongue-in-cheek reference to myself. smile

Ana Wed 18-Sept-13 19:34:15

Who? confused

Ana Wed 18-Sept-13 19:33:19

Crossed posts. Certainly not the Bully, jingl! grin

j08 Wed 18-Sept-13 19:33:03

How do you know whether someone has knowledge of the subject or not?

Do you yourself know everything?

j08 Wed 18-Sept-13 19:31:47

NOT the bully though.

Ana Wed 18-Sept-13 19:31:38

Some are, of course, a combination of several types!

And we probably wouldn't all agree on who fits into what category - depends on whose views and personality you feel an affinity towards.

j08 Wed 18-Sept-13 19:31:27

I've no doubt I'm a bit of all of 'em. Not many angels on here.

j08 Wed 18-Sept-13 19:30:51

shock So inflammatory!!!

#moneywhereyourmouthis

petallus Wed 18-Sept-13 19:29:03

What a perceptive list.

I particularly like 'Last-on-the-Bandwagon'

absent Wed 18-Sept-13 19:24:19

I think that over time we have got used to the regular posters and make allowances for some, agree with others and ignore still others almost automatically. We know who is the Bully, the Condescending One, the Self-satisfied Moaner, the Irritatingly Off the Point One, the Opinionated One (especially on matters of which she is completely ignorant), the Last-on-the-Band-Wagon One, the Calming One, the Excited One, the Well-informed One, the Well-rounded One, the Humorous One, the Indignant One and so on and so on. New posters can be a bit more challenging and disrupt our complacency.

I don't post that often now but have done so in the past so, no doubt, earned my own less than flattering sobriquet. Please don't tell me what it is. grin

grumppa Wed 18-Sept-13 19:07:30

You are too generous. POGS. The letters might stand for

Grumpy
Reactionary
Unsympathetic
Morose
Pedantic
Pompous
Antisocial

POGS of course stands for

Perceptive
Observant
Generous
Superior!

LizG Wed 18-Sept-13 14:42:28

Willco j08 smile Sel

Aka Wed 18-Sept-13 14:36:49

Not a saint ...I have it on good authority that I'm a 'Very Very Naughty Nana' ...out of the mouths of babes wink

Sel Wed 18-Sept-13 14:31:36

Aka course it does, 'it's mostly fruit' is my catchall phrase for most puddings..Cherry Garcia for example smile

You are a saint so a bit of sinning will do you good cupcakes galore

POGS Wed 18-Sept-13 14:23:20

G Good
R Rounded
U Understated
M Man
P Pleasant
P Person
A Always

Blimey you have a groupie like Pete. grin

Sorry Kitty deviated from your OP wine

Aka Wed 18-Sept-13 13:45:04

Hi Sel getting into a routine. Our Greatnan and GD are currently have a lunchtime nap, one of them snoring very loudly. Just grabbing a healthy snack (does lemon drizzle cake count as one of my 5-a-day?) cupcake

Anniebach Wed 18-Sept-13 13:39:55

kitty, I quoted your ' mostly new posters who delight in creating discord' claim. Gracemum agreed with you and this is why I spoke of it again.

My views on welcoming was addressed to the forum , as some want a divide between new and old posters it seemed fair that as a new poster I too expressed my feelings on how unfriendly it is to tell any new poster to know their place, surely this only drives away new posters?

If Gracemum meant she agreed with you on battles for supremacy then I apologise . I dislike battles no matter the cause

Sel Wed 18-Sept-13 13:38:06

LizG I'm ok with 'pompous twit', really grin Now if you'd mentioned my weight...

Aka glad to see you, hope things have eased up a bit smile

j08 my interpretation of Kitty's post too grin

j08 Wed 18-Sept-13 13:36:14

LizG stop over-thinking it! grin

Happy birthday. flowers

LizG Wed 18-Sept-13 13:33:35

Oh dear, I really didn't mean to appear rude with that Sel sorry; you were right not to recommend! Thank you for your good wishes too I didn't mean for that to happen either - or maybe secretly I did smile grin smile ?? blush

Good grief Liz . . . Stop digging.

j08 Wed 18-Sept-13 13:33:05

But I'm sure you weren't getting at all new posters in general. Perhaps just the ones who you find in beech woods. smile