Greatnan One of my trainees told me (nearly 10 years ago) that all the boys wanted was oral sex, easily and quickly performed outdoors or in a car, no need to remove clothing or have any foreplay. The other, shyer, trainees confirmed, by nodding, that this was the case. Trainee No 1 then proceeded to lecture the others about how degrading this was for women, etc.etc. I ran this revelation past DD1 who confirmed that to her knowledge, this was also the norm among teenagers in Glasgow and in Edinburgh, not just on 'one night stands' but also throughout some long term relationships. I was totally astonished and yet again wondered whether feminism had achieved anything for the next generation of young women. 