There is much controversy in my borough at the moment as a catholic state secondary school has been given the go ahead, I completely understand the secular argument against faith schools, particularly in a time when there is an ever increasing lack of places.
I went to a state catholic primary and an independent catholic convent where in retrospect, I concede I was brainwashed, but it was absolutely what my parents wanted and a secular school would have been an anathema to them. However, having said that I did have complete freedom to choose my friends outside school, many who lived up and down my road who were not catholic and that was not a problem for them. I also don't remember ever being told I would have to marry a catholic, marrying a non catholic was quaintly referred to I think as "mixed marriage" and the understanding was that you as a catholic naturally imposed that religion on your offspring, regardless of whether or not this is what your spouse would want. My husband is not a catholic and when we did have children together I did moot the idea of having them baptised as catholics my husband was opposed as he felt that they would have to take on the whole lot on and invariably, they, like me, would undergo a degree of brainwashing, he also didn't want any unncessary fears being instilled into them, which I had to agree was the case when I went to school. However, his granddaughters from his first marriage have gone and are going through a couple of the premier catholic high profile London state schools and he has conceded that they are much better than the local non faith comprehensive where our children went. I did say to my younger son that I wished he had gone to one of them, but he regards himself as an atheist having read the whole Richard Dawkins argument and said that he would have hated to have been brought up a catholic.
My children went to a Church of England state primary, where I was actually quite impressed with the way they were taught religion, it was quite different from my experience. Their school included quite a lot of teaching about the Judaism as well and on the whole I think religion was taught in quite a positive way, I think it is quite good to have some sort of understanding about religion without having it imposed on young minds. I think this is where faith schools may come unstuck I am thinking in particular of the Islamic ones. I gather from my step grandchildren catholic state schools are not quite as ghastly as the ones I went to and they do have to subscribe to the government's sex education programme for example, which would never have happened in my day. Finally, on a positive note about my schooling I remember quite wistfully how lovely the mass was in Latin and in spite of never being taught that as a subject I am glad I have an incy wincy smattering of it today.