If I put a pebble in a jar every time I empty or stack the dishwasher and took one out every time DH does likewise, I would have a very full jar very quickly. If I had a pebble every time I ring my old (now widowed) schoolfriend in Scotland (when we usually chat for over an hour) and took one away every time she rang me....well, what do you think? If I had pebble every time DH takes the recycling all the way out to the bags/boxes in the garage as opposed to leaving them in the utility room pointing hopefully garagewards..........etc etc etc.
Do you have "pebbles" in your life?
Anger management!!! Help needed.