Our local library recently started a Kint and Natter group, there are at the moment about 8 of us, just for an hour, which is probably long enough for some, and we enjoy the company.
Regards men doing embroidery, I think perhaps it was the sailors who did this - we have a large picture which we believe to have been done by my mother-in-law's father, or father in law, not sure which. It is done in wool, and was kept hidden away (and very dirty, without a frame or glass) until she said I could have it - I loved it, and would not have taken it without her blessing. My daughter had it beautifully framed and I took it to the Antiques Road Show when it was local. It is not worth a fortune, but the valuer said that because it had been kept in the dark, the wool (there was very little colouring of wool available then) had kept it's colour well. The picture is of a sailing boat, and the valuer said that it had obviously been done by someone who knew the vessel, because all the rigging and flags, etc. were correct. The name on the vessel is Jim (the J round the wrong way) and embroidered underneath, "The Girl I Love" and the initials MJU with the J round the wrong way again. I thought "Girl I love" and the initials referred to a person, but I now think the Girl is the ship, and the initials MJU those of the relation.