It is inspiring, grannyactivist. If we do need to give ourselves a talking to, I suppose it's along these lines. I feel sadness creeping up at this time of the year, and am fighting it quite well, this time, I think. Got a 'sad anniversary' coming up, and as well as that, my DD is still estranged from me, BUT my DS has met a girl and they have fallen in love. That makes me so happy! The other two things, I can do nothing about, so I just have to 'bear' them, but my son is HAPPY! Therefore, I am grateful! 