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Just how many pairs of pj's does a 5 year old need ?

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Gally Sun 29-Dec-13 02:33:13

It seems to me that children these days have far too much choice in their wardrobe shock. I am sleeping in DGD's room, which is a bit of a tip so, fed up bumping into drawers of her stuff which wouldn't close, I decided to do a bit of sorting and tidying. I found 15 pairs of pj's; for heavens sake, this is Australia where in the summer they sleep half naked and only need to wear them during winter months. I proceeded to the next drawer : 20 pairs of undies, of varying sizes, 10 pairs of tights, 27 pairs of socks and so it went on - but at least I won't be knocking my shins on the drawers any more! grin

felice Thu 02-Jan-14 16:19:40

I get into trouble for putting clean clothes on DGS, 23 months, every morning when he is downstairs with me, DD, the one who polishes the silver and cleaned a sort of chandelier on a stepladder on new Years Eve.
She just sticks him in the same little jogging suit every morning if not going out until it screams for help and jumps into the washing machine on its own!!!!!!!

kalexie Tue 31-Dec-13 13:40:01

Lol! Yes Lona, the next time I go in a few weeks time I intend to avoid the pantry like the plague grin.

Lona Tue 31-Dec-13 10:06:17

kalexie Next time...... don't ask! grin

kalexie Tue 31-Dec-13 09:46:00

We live in France and although some bargains are to be found, generally clothes are more expensive here. Even at the vide greniers (car boot sales) you generally don't find bundles of babies/children's clothes like you do in the UK, they tend to be sold individually. You can get a really nice bundle of clothes in the UK for the same price as individual items here.

My daughter's house is absolutely bursting at the seams with all her stuff and stuff for little grandson (now 19 weeks old) Before I last visited my daughter and son in law in September just after little grandson was born she told me that she had gotten behind on her washing and ironing and it was all in the pantry piled up to the top. I thought she was kidding! Even though she had warned me, I was still flabbergasted when I opened the pantry door and saw it all. Guess who's job it was to sort it all out!

rosesarered Mon 30-Dec-13 18:50:04

Having a modern washing machine makes laundry easy but even so; I try to do as little as possible and wear things as many times as I can [ we are all aware when clothes need washing.] Talking about outer clothes, not undies.it also knocks the hell out of today's clothes [not as robust as they used to be]by constant washing.Sweaters worn over tees and shirts do not need washing much at all and the odd stain can be 'spot cleaned'. It makes life harder to do so much laundry, and yes, kids have FAR more of everything than they need, be it clothes, toys, treats etc.Making a rod for your own back!!

FlicketyB Mon 30-Dec-13 14:57:39

It is not just small children. A friend had her son, in his 40s, return home for a while after his marriage broke up. He was in the army and previously when not at his marital home had he had lived in the Officer's Mess where laundry was provided. Each day he put all his clothes, trousers, sweaters, even if only worn for a short period to the wash.

My friend soon made it clear that home did not provide that kind of service and told him to do his own laundry. Amazing how clothes all of a sudden had multiple wears before washing.

Ana Sun 29-Dec-13 21:22:26

You're not kidding about the money aspect, Charleygirl!

Her electricity bill must be through the roof, but she works full-time and time is very tight - I do sympathise, but it's the laissez-faire attitude to clothes-changing that really bugs me!

Charleygirl Sun 29-Dec-13 21:17:42

Ana I could easily be a personal manager to your DD for a couple of days and save her a load of money! Telling her the error of her ways is better to come from non family.

annodomini Sun 29-Dec-13 21:16:58

DiL just folds children's clothes straight from the drier and puts them away; however my other son's partner is a compulsive ironer. When I looked after DS and DGS when she had DGS2, I felt obliged to do the ironing in her absence. Brownie points galore!

Ana Sun 29-Dec-13 20:59:02

I asked DD about this today, and she admitted that she does the same (i.e. lets the DGDs change as often as they want and just shoves their cast-offs in the wash) - she says it's easier!! I was horrified!

She doesn't iron, though - at all. Everything goes in the tumble-dryer...hmm

Mamie Sun 29-Dec-13 20:37:53

Isn't it something to do with the fact that children's clothes are so much cheaper in the UK?
I have been known to take my GD's clothes out of the basket fold them and put them back in the cupboard.

granjura Sun 29-Dec-13 20:21:19

It would be interesting to hear from other grans who live abroad- as we have quite a few in different countries.

granjura Sun 29-Dec-13 19:54:32

harrigan, I have been trying not to say that- as I've got into 'trouble' in the past for making comparisons with other countries. But I think you have mentioned something important- which is the desire for UK kids to escape the uniform and change into casual stuff. Where I live there is no uniform, and kids seem to have a lot fewer clothes than in the UK, and not to change after school. They also seem to be far less into 'labels' than the kids I know in the UK either. Hope it won't offend anybody (I lived in the UK for 39 years until 4 years ago).

JessM Sun 29-Dec-13 19:11:09

Children's clothes relatively expensive in Australia (except at Target)
How things have changed since my mother's experience of growing up in WW2 - she had a gym slip and 2 blouses. This was her entire wardrobe.

harrigran Sun 29-Dec-13 18:52:55

GC are always changing their clothes, uniform off and casual on. Often they decide to do dressing up but do not re-wear the previous outfit when changing back, out comes another clean outfit hmm

margaretm74 Sun 29-Dec-13 17:37:46

They all have too much STUFF these days (and probably I do too), however, my DGS lives in Australia and I don't think he owns many pairs of socks! (must ask DD)

absent Sun 29-Dec-13 17:22:41

Gosh – are all the Gransnetters turning into their mothers overnight?

granjura Sun 29-Dec-13 16:23:39

Our girls got into the habit of trying clothes on, drop them to the floor, put something else on, etc- then put all the clean clothes from the floor into the washing basket. Drove me spare so bought a washing basket each- and folded clothes after washing, without ironing- they had to iron their own if they wanted. Soon cured them!

Charleygirl Sun 29-Dec-13 13:47:24

I have to confess that I never wear the same item twice. This goes back to my boarding school days where we were given a clean blouse weekly. We had a white blouse to wear with our kilts on a Sunday and they were worn for at least 2 Sundays. Underwear was weekly!!!

Anne58 Sun 29-Dec-13 13:44:26

Oh dear Gally that "easier to let her rather than get into an argument" doesn't bode well!

what's she like at school?

whenim64 Sun 29-Dec-13 12:49:41

I rarely iron, and don't buy clothes that are high maintenance, except for a few linen tops and jackets which get a quick once over now and again.

Gally Sun 29-Dec-13 12:43:23

p.s. No ironing is done in this house - everything is folded and put away (eventually) .It seems to work - perhaps I may try this system when I return home!

Lona Sun 29-Dec-13 12:38:10

Not long ago there was something in the paper about people not changing their bedding for weeks on end, [yuk] and yet they happily chuck 'clean' clothes in the wash at the drop of a hat!

Don't get it at all tchconfused

Gally Sun 29-Dec-13 12:31:53

Because she just does and no one (except me) seems to bother about it! DD finds it easier to let her do that than get into an argument with her - she's a very wilful child. However she is much easier to get on with now, which is a blessing, but her younger sister - 17 months - is going the same way and shrieks every 5 minutes. I have been here nearly 4 weeks and I still can't pick her up without her screaming blue murder! I just think she is spoilt but if I say so, I am firmly put in my place shock. I find it all very exhausting.
Just off to bed - I think I need the sleep as we are all (13 of us) off to the zoo in the morning - may try and leave some of them behind with any luck wink

Nonu Sun 29-Dec-13 12:27:01

Still, they could send their ironing round to me.
As it a well known fact I love to iron !!
CHUCKLE !