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Wearing Make Up. Age 63.

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kassi Fri 16-Jan-15 15:04:06

I am 63. I have been wearing make up for nearly 50 years. Foundation, powder, eye shadow, eye liner, mascara, and lipstick. Would never go downstairs, open the front door, or go out without it. Over the years it has been toned down though..... Not garish.

Just lately, maybe over the past 12 months, when I have been getting ready for bed, I've realised that I've 'forgotten' to use my make up.......

Nothing 'bad' happened when I didn't wear it..... Life carried on as usual! I'm now wondering if it's actually worth bothering with the daily ritual? When I have my make up on, I feel 'dressed' and ready to face the world. But life went on as normal when I didnt !

Ana Fri 16-Jan-15 17:12:24

I wear foundation, eyebrow gel and mascara nearly every day. Sometimes even if I'm not going out at all!

To remove makeup I use the Boots cucumber cleansing lotion - same lovely fresh smell as the wipes.

Culag Fri 16-Jan-15 17:06:57

I'm the same age as the OP and don't go out without my makeup. I use foundation as my face has lots of open pores and broken thread veins which look better covered up! Also eyeshadow and mascara. I do find though, that the shadow wears off easily and migrates into the wrinkles! Any remedies please?

I aslo use the Boots cucumber wipes, lovely smell.

Nonu Fri 16-Jan-15 17:00:52

Jing.
((hug)), we need more of them TMM

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 16-Jan-15 16:58:54

Nonu quite often your posts make me want to shout HOORAY!!!

smile

Nonu Fri 16-Jan-15 16:51:23

I always put on mascara, eye-brow powder, and lipstick, every day even if not going out, IFgoing out put a DASH of foundation to even out the skin tones.
I wear sunscreen all the time to protect my skin, which seems to work.

I also paint my nails , dark in the Winter , lighter in the Summer.

I like it, DH likes it, so there is nothing to DISLIKE.
smile

J52 Fri 16-Jan-15 16:49:49

I wear make up every day if going out, tinted moisturiser, eyeshadow and mascara. I find lipstick either wears off or is so thick I don't like the texture on my lips.

Today has been snow and v cold, so no going out and my skin has had a rest.
I always remove it with Boots cucumber removal wipes. Then water. x

ninathenana Fri 16-Jan-15 16:18:21

I don't leave the house without mascara and brow pencil. I only use more eye makeup and lippy if I'm going somewhere in particular. I've never worn foundation. Luckily my skin is good.
Indoors I don't wear any makeup.

ninathenana Fri 16-Jan-15 16:17:25

I don't leave the house without mascara and brow pencil. I only use more eye makeup and lippy if I'm going somewhere in particular. I've never worn foundation. Luckily my skin is good.
Indoors I don't wear any makeup.

GillT57 Fri 16-Jan-15 15:55:31

Light good quality foundation to act as sun screen and even out my skin tone, light blusher ( look awful without it), light eye liner, lashings of mascara and slick of lippy. Have a day off if not going anywhere on a Sunday but I am always shocked when I catch sight of myself in the mirror on a no make up day shock

Mishap Fri 16-Jan-15 15:54:04

Mind you, makeup can be overdone. A relative of my DD is about 30 and wears layers of foundation, plucks her eyebrows away then draws new ones on - every time I see her I want to get a flannel and scrub it off and say "Enjoy your lovely youthful skin while you have it!" She looks an absolute fright, and she is a pretty lass - such a waste.

rockgran Fri 16-Jan-15 15:53:01

I've never worn a lot of make up as I never wanted there to be an occasion when make up was not worn and odious comparisons would be made - e.g. in hospital or camping. However, I always moisturise and usually manage a slick of lipstick and mascara before appearing in public. I do like to use perfume and hate forgetting my earrings. If I forget makeup entirely I doubt anyone would notice. I aim to be "tidy" rather than glamourous.

Mishap Fri 16-Jan-15 15:52:01

I think I have some femininity gene missing - never wear make-up or perfume or skirts! - it never put the men off though!

Kassi - you should do whatever makes you happy - wear your war paint on the days you fancy doing it; but don't feel bad about the days you choose not to. Go with the flow.

janerowena Fri 16-Jan-15 15:49:10

On the rare times when DBH gets back in daylight during the winter and I have a bare face, he peers at me in a concerned fashion and asks 'are you feeling ok?'.

kassi Fri 16-Jan-15 15:48:57

Sorry cross posts!

kassi Fri 16-Jan-15 15:48:23

DH never notices. He wouldn't notice if I was wearing a bin bag!

Anya Fri 16-Jan-15 15:47:13

grin

loopylou Fri 16-Jan-15 15:46:11

Only thing he does notice Anya!
Clothes-wise I think I could wear a black bin bag and no comment!

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 16-Jan-15 15:43:36

My son always tells me I look better without my makeup. Which is worrying, in a 'no hope' way.

Lona Fri 16-Jan-15 15:38:31

I've always worn makeup since I started work at 16, and I still wear the full works.
I think it protects my skin(I was a redhead) from the weather,but mainly I wear it because without it I look like a walking corpse!

Anya Fri 16-Jan-15 15:38:26

Your DH actually notices loopy ?

Anya Fri 16-Jan-15 15:37:20

Tinted moisturiser is all I use most of the tine. Save the eyeshadow etc for special occasions only.

loopylou Fri 16-Jan-15 15:37:19

anniezzz, I have to put on perfume as well as earrings, hate it if forget perfume.
If I do make more effort DH asks if I'm going somewhere, so rarely do I wear makeup at home.

janerowena Fri 16-Jan-15 15:31:49

I need colour. Especially at this time of year. It's ok when I am at home, I wear none at all, but as soon as a nice light foundation hits my face it seems to come alive. I look like a zombie sometimes, in the early morning and late at night. And a very thin line of eyeliner on the upper lid works wonders and makes me look more awake, it opens up my eyes. Sometimes I forget mascara because the eyeliner has made such a difference. Lips also can look bleached out on people, I don't want to scare the postman! (Like I did the day I forgot I was wearing a pale green facemask!)

anniezzz09 Fri 16-Jan-15 15:31:31

I agonise over this though I've never worn much make up and certainly never foundation, I can't bear the feeling of wearing a mask!

These days I use eyeliner and lipstick and blusher and sometimes eye shadow and I wear more make up than I used to because I think I am aware of ageing setting in and I can look incredibly pale and washed out a lot of the time, especially in the winter.

I never go out without putting in some earrings!

loopylou Fri 16-Jan-15 15:29:45

I think if it makes you feel better and more confident then go for it! However, in hospital I suspect they like to be able to see 'you'.
I'm basically lazy I guess! hmm