You must think I am always moaning, but this is another thing to sadden me about my family.
My favourite aunt, well frankly my ONLY aunt in Scotland has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I don't think there is any "good" cancer, but this is a nasty however you look at it. She is a wonderfully elegant and spritely 87 but I fear this will not be for much longer. My uncle died in a nursing home in January aged 95, unable to stand, walk or communicate after major strokes, so she will at least be spared that.
However, my point is that I emailed my sister who lives abroad to pass on the sad news and also to ask how she had fared in recent blood tests and heart scans. This reply (with names edited out) saddened me. You could a more personal letter from your bank manager!
DH says I should not be surprised, but I was just disappointed at such an impersonal message.
Dear ***I spoke to ** the day before we left for * (holiday) and she didn’t sound well at all. It has been a tough year for her. Pancreatic cancer is becoming more common though it could be the greater awareness of the disease.Cure however is still uncommon.
Blood test to check blood flow.Diagnosis, who knows. Sincerely, *
Ah well.