Mine call me Glam Ma,!
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I am a Gran in a long line of Grans. At our local Grandparent/grandchild group I am the only Gran, the others are Nan, Nana or Nanny. Does what DGCs choose to call their grandmothers sometimes down to regional variations? ie I think Nanny is a Midland term .
Mine call me Glam Ma,!
I'm Granny to my two DGC and Granny Grapes to my DH's Grandchildren. Their other GPs are Nanny and Granddad and Grandma. My DH is Grandpa to his own Granchildren and mine call him by his first name , as my Ex husband is still around. No idea where the grapes bit came from! It all sounds a bit confusing but the Grandchildren take it all in their stride- as someone has already said it doesn't really matter what I'm called. My own Grandparents were Granny and Granpa Sandy and Granny and Grandpa Ranny, they were known by the names of their dogs!
I'm Mama Jude (all Grandchildren called me that when they were younger) to one lot, Grandma Jude to one, and Gramma Jude to another. My Mum was Granma then Gran, although was known as Granma Granma to differentiate from their (now ex) stepdads' Mother who was Grandma (surname)!
When I was aged three or four (not sure) we had a bomb in the back garden - it didn't go off, fortunately, but we had to move out. We went to iive at my Grandma's, which was lovely! She and I got on very well - I was her first grandchild - we liked the same Children's Hour programmes! Actually living there for some months was a really happy time for me.
When there was an air-raid, we would go to the cellar, via a mysterious doorway undert the stairs, which I misheard as the 'Grubby-hole' - and that name stuck. There were usually other people down there - who and where they cam from I have no idea. There was a woman who, every time there was an explosion would suck her teeth and say 'Ooh. That's done it...' I never saw her - it was pitch dark there - but I had a hand to hold onto...
Grandma and Grandpa were lovely people, and I treasure these images of their young selves (he said, hopefully).
My GD calls me Grand. Other children have told her it should be Gran but she has stuck to her guns. My daughter's boys call me Gran-gran whilst my son's boy calls me Gran. I'm happy to go with whatever they have chosen.
My Welsh Mum was Nain (pronoun ed Nine) to my children and in deference to my Welsh connections, I am Nain to their children. They love having the only Nain among their friends.
I'm NannaNoo, because DGD hated the sound of the vacuum cleaner (or noo-noo as she called it) and would run to me for a cuddle whenever my daughter was cleaning.
I'm happy to be Nanna, but I don't want to be called Nanny. Nanny is a female goat or a child-care professional. Anyway, what's in a name, as long as the DGC love me, I'm a happy old gal!
Lovely picture, Nanaj.
I myself had Granny and Grandpa and Grandma and Grandad. When my first child came along she was due a few days before my mums 50th birthday and said she was far too young to be Grand anything. My eldest started calling her Charlie when she began to talk (no one knows why) and she is still Charlie to everyone in the family and her neighbours. My dad is Grandpa and my in laws are Grandma and Grandad. Then along come my grandchildren, We are Grandma and Grandad, my in laws are Nana and Pops and my parents are Granny Charlie and Grandpa.
When my first GD was on her way, both grandmothers wanted to be Granny, both hating the name Nan, Nana etc. However, when DGD was about eighteen months old she started to call me Gaggi and the granny, Granny. So I'm Gaggi to both girls now
As you see from my username I'm a Nanna. I've seen it spelled Nana but always see that as being pronounced 'Narna'. My first and only grandchild is too young to call me anything yet but when she does I'll be happy to go with her version!
My eldest granddaughter named me. "Darwin". because I often say "Darling"to the ones I love and that's how it came out when she tried saying "Darling" so now I am known as Grandma Darwin, Darwin or just Grandma. I love all the names
My mother was Nanna and was so special that no one in the family would steal her title! I am GrannieAnnie and DH is Pops. All the littles, even outside the family, call us this.
You are all going to hate me for this, but when I was growing up nannies were lovely cuddly people who were "hired" to take care of small children. So, in order to differentiate between the strict but wonderful Nanny, we called our grandparents Granny or Grandpa (or a variation on the theme). My own parents didn't have a nanny, but sometimes my grandmother (Granny) asked my mother's old nanny (well, old to us) to help her look after us when we stayed with her (and Grandpa, who I called Poopa).
My husband and his brothers were also brought up by nannies (before and during the War) so the word "Nanny" has always been associated with a beloved woman who did a huge amount of childcare. Mother, on the other hand, was a rather distant and glamorous figure who wafted in and out of small children's lives. And, later on, became Grandma.
Anyway, it's now 2015, and I'm Granny and my husband is Papa (pronounced Poppa). The grandchildren think it's hysterical that I used to call my grandfather Poopa. I suppose it was a bit odd, but he didn't mind a bit. It's not what you call them. It's how much you love them (and vice versa).
My GD calls me Gogo, my daughter said it was my choice. As my daughter was 35 when Mikayla was born so we were SOOOO ready to be grand parents. I thought long and hard about what I'd like to be called. We live in South Africa (left Seaham 34 years ago) Our Zulu grandmothers here are either called Gogo or Mkulu. Gogo reminded me of the gogo dancers, anyone remember them? Anyway I thought Gogo would be a good "handle" for me. Grand fathers are Mkulu, pronounced mm-koo-loo, however my husband is Gramps.
I am Granny H and Granny M is the other one, to my eldest DS 4 children. To my daughter's 2 we are Nanny and Grandad. Our youngest DS has a 13 month old son, so we are yet to be named by him.
Being Welsh, I asked to be called Nain B [pronounced 'nine', B for Brenda]. I'm not sure how you'd spell it, but I usually get Nainy B.
Now they are old enough to email and text, my signature is 9EB - I just love it xx 
My children had 'Big Nan' and 'Little Nan' (my Mum was 5'8" and Mil was 5' 0"...!). I'm from the Black Country, so had always only known 'Nanny'.
When my first DGC was born, I was asked what I'd like to be, and immediately said Grandma, as it just sounded 'right' to me... Other GM was Nanna, so that was fine. DH is Grandad (only one GF as DiL's DF had died).
Second DGC also calls me Grandma - sadly other DGM is dead - and DH Grandad, while the other GF is Grandpa.
I wanted Granny, after my own much-loved maternal grandmother, but Daughter was horrified for some reason (current fashion, maybe?) and suggested Nain, for our Welsh heritage. That horrified me, so I was happy to be Grandma. Here in the Midlands it seems most are Nanna or Nan. I was Gaga for a while (still am in one sense...), until Granddaughter could speak. When she was five I trained her to address me as "Best Grandma in the Universe", for the sole purpose of annoying my daughter, and both she and her little sister continue to write that on notes when they want something. Now they are nine and seven I've become Gma (pronounced Jee-Ma) and Grandpa of course is Jee-pa. And my own mother, introduced as Great-Grandma, immediately became simply "Great", a title she has, quite properly, insisted upon ever since!
My own mother would never have been called nan or nanna, nanny. She said that the name comes from the Nanny Goat that was often used to feed babies when there was a loss of mothers milk, or she couldn't feed for one reason or another,
I was going to be grandma but seem to have ended up as Manma as its easier to say.
My Grandchildren call me Nannie, notice the spelling too chosen by me because when my eldest Daughter was pregnant she asked me what would I like to be called and I chose Nannie! So all four Grandchildren now call me Nannie. We are in the South!
I am Nanny to Jack and Francesca and that suits me fine. My eldest son likes to try and wind me up by calling me granny but I don't bite as it is not the end of the world. My hubby is Granddad and our grandson has been able to say that word for a long time.
I was brought up in a rench-speaking British colony, and we "looked down" upon anyone whose grandparent was "Nanna"... talk about brainwashing!
One grandmother was "Meregrand" the other one was "Granny" - she was horrible! My mother was delighted to be "Bobbine" to her GCs as a corruption of her name.
So when my own GCs came along, there was no way I would be granny to the english-speaking GCs. i had wanted "grandmere" but that soon degenerated to Grandma. DH is "Das" to one GC and "Granddad" to the rest...
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