grannylyn, I've been shot down in flames too but I remember the helpful answers I've had more than the negatives so, if you think we can help, let us know!
Good morning grannylyn65, hope today gets better for you. There was a lovely news item yesterday about a panda in Washington Zoo. Sorry, have no idea how to do links but if you go into You Tube and search for "panda in the snow" it will come up. Charming and guaranteed to raise a smile!
There will always be the odd one or two on here who are less than sympathetic, sadly. But for the most part people on this forum are very helpful and supportive. I am so sorry you are finding life difficult at the moment but I hope you can put your trust in the many kind members here so they can offer the support you need.
I really wish I could but was torn to pieces by another member who pours her vitriol on many asking for help,when someone protested they were told 'this is a forum, therefore I can say anything I want!!!