I think that on reflection it's all Facebooks fault! My DD unfortunately posts all her most personal details and I hate it. However, and it's a big one! As my illness progressed over 4 years and people saw my weight drop to 6st, they were concerned.
Rather than contacting every one when I had anything to report, I would just insert an emoticon on FB, from ? to ? to indicate how I was.
Or, just say ' not a good day ' and people would know.
So, I wasn't trying to be clever or annoying when I posted 'not a good day' it is as it is, and now I have lots of lovely feedback which really cheered me. And today is ?