PS I got wolf-whistled at when I was 65. Obviously the bloke was blind. I looked around thinking there must be a young woman around but there wasn't. I'm a feminist but, I have to say, that builder (well, you knew it was a builder, didn't you?) made my day. Why not just enjoy the attention you say you are getting? You're probably old enough to know how to deal with it with no hurt feelings.
Jingles... wish I did live in Yorkshire! I love it! But, no I live in a little Norfolk village and have done for about 16 years. My house is tacked onto a big farmhouse...was probably a Byrne. I figured nd it bloody awfully desolate because my habitat was Brighton. Loo
Well sadly, if this happens a lot , then the odds are you are coming across too friendly . Maybe you just need to tone it down , if their attention is unwanted then it's up to you to set the tone.
What sort of comfort were you expecting by the way
It's my natural tendency to be friendly to "tradesmen" or anybody that finds themselves in the vicinity of my bloody awful desolate house. But these people always think "I'm coming on to them" I mean the latest one is a tiny wrinkled chappy of about 5 feet. This has always happened to me. My friend says "well, you shouldn't be so sexy" but honest lyrics I'm not. It's a bloody insult! Who do these guys think they are?? (Wouldn't much nd so much if they were fishy and good husband material)