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Imperfect27 Thu 10-Mar-16 07:45:08

I had a job interview for a teaching post this week and had to take an object that 'sums you up' to 'start a discussion'. I took a photo of my 4 children and said how central they are in my life and that where there are gaps on my CV it is because I have been busy being a mum - and that for me, that is the most important job I have ever done. All seemed to go down well. I got the job - a temporary post. Now I have to go to a second interview for a permanent post in the same school and repeat the process -and with some of the same people so I feel I must take something else. After much brain-racking I think I will take a book - could be any book I guess - and will talk about how central reading / a love of learning is for me. The permanent post may include a literacy leadership position so it is an obvious link for me.

What object do you think you would choose to 'sum you up' and why?

Tizliz Thu 10-Mar-16 12:19:26

I think of myself as the sum of all the things in my life. OH, children, grandchildren, dogs, our business, my books, my friends. Not one of these things is me, but add them all together and that is me.

reikilady Thu 10-Mar-16 12:53:37

I would be a tree as I would live to several hundred years old (oak Im thinking), I would see the world changing and I just love trees, I too bend with circumstances like the tree bends with the wind , I love the wind through my hair and the changing seasons so yes a tree would be my object.

kittylester Thu 10-Mar-16 13:35:07

My house or a photo of it! It is the most important thing to me as it represents a place where family and friends come and feel welcome. It has historic significance in our village and to the partners of two of my off spring and, therefore, to some of my DGC. Its contents are my history and the history of my family. Other than that, it would be my kitchen and/or dining tables where friends and family gather.

Or my car, which represents freedom to leave my home and to come back to it.

Luckily, as Ann said, I'm not looking for a job either.

Anniebach Thu 10-Mar-16 13:41:40

My iPad

Alea Thu 10-Mar-16 18:11:36

etheltbags/reikilady which one are you being today?
(It's like Grayson Perry!)

grannylyn65 Thu 10-Mar-16 19:55:30

Yes Tiz, I am the sum of all the parts !

Falconbird Fri 11-Mar-16 06:11:15

A quote that sums me up is from The Canterbury Tales.

It's the Clerk of Oxenford:

"and gladly would be learn and gladly teach."

I taught adults for 20 years and learnt a lot from them - as much as they learned from me.

On a soppier note and something I wouldn't take to an interview is a pink rabbit soft toy I bought in a Charity Shop. It has a much loved look, it's a bit bedraggled and has a bemused expression - that's me.

Good Luck Imperfect27.

cornergran Fri 11-Mar-16 06:58:51

Probably either one of the small plant 'children' propagated from one given to us by my MIL over 45 years ago. Or a photo of the original. A constant through 8 house moves and an observer to our lives. Though if I were really honest a tangled piece of string as I am often in a muddle. Wouldn't help me get the job. grin. As well I'm retired perhaps. Good luck Imperfect.

Imperfect27 Fri 11-Mar-16 07:23:03

Thanks for all the good wishes smile.

For the purposes of my interview, after running through all sorts of 'grown up' book titles in my head over the past day, I think I might take a board book I have bought for my GS for Easter. Books are so central to our family and I created a really good library for my own children - and visited the library with them so much too (thinks ...could take library card...) They have all gone to uni and two have careers founded on their literacy skills. So a children's book sums up my passion for reading to and with children and nurturing their life-long love of reading. Mind you - DS2 NEVER wanted to read for pleasure and NEVER wanted me to read to him at bedtime You can lead a horse to water, but ... He is a very contented chef!

Perhaps I ought to take a post-it pad - need to write myself little notes to prevent senior moments ... don't I think that would go down too well though ... grin

Grannyknot Fri 11-Mar-16 08:22:45

Well, cynicism aside, the latest fad interview "ice breaker" has made for interesting reading. greyduster my SIL is a sea fisherman and when he is fishing, he is just as absorbed as you describe. Watching him cast is seeing poetry in motion.

I'd have to take a bottle full of water from the Indian Ocean and describe "a shabby little hut, by the dock, down by the sea, it is nothing fancy, but ... it's paradise to me". (Song lyrics from back in the day, growing up beside the sea). My happy place.

ffinnochio Fri 11-Mar-16 09:08:05

I'm really at a loss to know why one needs to take anything. Wouldn't just asking the question 'to start a discussion' work? I think it's rather limiting for the interviewee and somewhat lazy of the interviewer.
It sounds like a Gestalt exercise - as if you were the child. I can see this being used with children in a classroom environment, but not at an interview, adult to adult.
A serious question, by the way.

Charleygirl Fri 11-Mar-16 09:28:43

The very best of luck Imperfecta27 I have come to the conclusion that I am unemployable.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 11-Mar-16 09:34:03

I agree fffin. It's a bit like 'Show and Tell' at primary school! hmm

Imperfect yes, I agree. They might have expected a bribe, especially if I had put the credit card on the table! shock grin

M0nica Fri 11-Mar-16 10:00:12

Like Imperfect, a book, probably one on history or archaeology. Wherever I am my eyes automatically move to the printed material in my environment, posters, papers, magazines, books anything. I can remember when I was quite small, one of my aunts saying, in exasperation, 'that girl would read the back of a bus ticket' (she was right).

That is why my career was spent providing people with the information they needed to do their job, in the form that was most useful to them.

Juggernaut Fri 11-Mar-16 10:12:51

After a thirty eight year career in public and academic libraries, it's probably obvious! Although which book, I have no idea!

Chicklette Fri 11-Mar-16 10:19:10

What a great discussion starter this is! Books for me without a doubt. I might be a bit cheeky and take a copy of the one novel I had published as it's borne out of my life long love of books.
But I could just as happily take my food mixer (although it's bl***y heavy! ) as I love making cakes for friends and family. Or maybe a duster and bottle of Stardrops as it's hardly a hobby but cleaning is something I find myself doing far too often!
Good luck with the job. Sounds as though you're doing well as you're through to the second round!

PRINTMISS Fri 11-Mar-16 10:20:57

I would take a copy of "You will never walk alone" - never mind who is singing it. It will always remind me of all the young adults I mixed with when running a Gateway Club for people with learning disabilities. I was involved with that for thirty years, and this was the song we always sang after a party/disco/show; I can still see them after 15 years, joining hands and raising their arms swaying to the music. I learned so much from them over the years, and music is a great communicator.

merlotgran Fri 11-Mar-16 10:22:22

A paintbrush hmm

Samie Fri 11-Mar-16 11:12:32

The biscuit tin -no hesitation

maryEJB Fri 11-Mar-16 11:26:26

I have always loved reading, but it's difficult to choose one book. Maybe a library card?
I like the idea of a tuning fork to convey love of music? I have always sung in choirs and play in an amateur orchestra but would not like to take my violin to an interview in case they asked me to play it!
Probably and family photo album would sum me up best as the family are central to my life

Rogersmum Fri 11-Mar-16 11:31:20

I'd take a shovel and a plastic bag to put their bullsh1t question in!

mrsjones Fri 11-Mar-16 12:01:31

I can't see how this exercise can prove suitability for a teaching post. But what do I know?

I'd take a large wooden spoon to stir up the cauldron pot.

Good luck though imp.

NanaRayna Fri 11-Mar-16 12:03:18

My object would be a small, round pebble. Worn down to smoothness by the harsh elements, but still very much here. Comfortable to hold, but still painful if deployed in defence of loved ones.
Also illustrative of being stony broke, but that's another subject! hmm

lizzypopbottle Fri 11-Mar-16 12:31:40

I've been through the usual interview strategies as they've come and gone. The one I remember best is the book or paper lying on the floor as you walk in to the interview room. I'd read about that one before the interview and picked the sheet of paper up and placed it on the table. I got that job. I would have picked it up though, interview or not, and I suspect the other candidates did too so it was probably a waste of time for the interview panel.

GrannyPiggy Fri 11-Mar-16 12:32:11

I'd take an encyclopaedia
Full of useful information but takes ages to find what you're looking for !
Doubt I'd get the job though hehe