My otherwise perfectly lovely husband refused to do the washing up for years after we met ... apparently his couple of years (between leaving school and doing his national service, so not yesterday or even the day before!) working in the Royal Copenhagen factory washing the porcelain put him off!
Seemed to think the rest of us love doing dishes.
He has now seen the error of his ways and will take his turn BUT leaves everything stacked up in the drainer thingy instead of rinsing and placing in the dishwasher.
He is quite good at emptying the dishwasher but for some reason always, always leaves the pots and pans stacked for me to place in their cupboard!
Not sure what he uses the tea towel for as it's usually left scrunched upon the counter top but we don't use it to dry dishes so I'm not overly concerned, just curious.
Men!!!