At least she makes the list. My next door neighbour's husband used to go shopping every Saturday and bought what he wanted for the whole week- and she had to cook whatever he had bought. Often sausages for her and the kids and steak for him. She also had a very tight weekly allowance and had to ask specifically if the kids needed shoes or school stuff, etc. I always found it mind boggling as my parents were totally different.
Mind you next door but one's husband used to make her a list of the chores to be done for that day- with very clear instructions (younger than me)!!! Incredible- she did divorce him, surprise, surprise.