That's very unpleasant for you to say the least Hilltopgran.
I once found a rolled up sleeping bag on our front garden.
On Wednesday this week a massive amount of dog poo was on the pavement near our house and the children on their way to school had trodden in it, how disgusting and dangerous that was.
Any advice on grandchild/granny relationship problem

. I try to see it as thoughtles rather than an attempt to be deliberately distressing. Sometimes works
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