It's ok Christine don't worry about it, I don't anymore. In fact it's probably a blessing with how I am. Two fighting boys, aged 4 and 6 who get pleasure from knocking bells out of each other with a mother who fails to control them is not my idea of grandparenthood. Of course I would love them but I don't want to be in the middle of WWIII and on edge all the time. Plus they were very rude last time I saw them so that would only get worse with no checking going on. No, I'm better off with my beloved pets who are very gentle.
As for the phone, it gets very hot! And that's not just because I am holding it.
My DS is miffed because I send better emoticons than he does. I am finding my way around but I will look on youtube for videos of what it can do. Thank you.