A man can have an opinion on feminism, he can be an ally or describe himself as a feminist. When a man tells me what feminism is, and particularly what it isn't, then I reserve the right to scoff. His comments are, go for equality ladies, but not full equality, fight oppression but don't go mentioning male violence or being a meanie to the men.
The unpalatable truth is that women have been oppressed, because of their biology, by men. Not all men, heaven forbid I have to get my bingo card out again, but the system is set up and run by men and that hurts both sexes.
Most blokes are lovely but they are often silent when their mates are being sexist, when their given a job they know they aren't as good at as a female colleague at, and over this issue.
Maria Millar has said that the only people getting upset by this is "so called feminists" I would rephrase that as saying that most of the people getting upset about this are feminists, concerned parents plus anyone that thinks about it and it's implications for more than 5 minutes.
But it is feminists that flagged this, that have spotted the changes to the law, logged the abuse, changes in language etc. That's because we centre women and girls and are concerned when we see something harmful rearing on the horizon.
Lots of blokes are just catching up now because it isn't affecting them and it isn't really going to effect them.
So of course Steven is entitled to an opinion but I am entitled to ignore it too.