Not enough is done about workplace bullying, You think this kind of crap finishes once you leave school but alas, in many cases it doesn't. I was bullied in the workplace years ago. I had a friend who attended my wedding etc and there was another girl who was her friend but not really mine. It was she who used to bully me and my 'so called' friend just used to stand there looking at the floor instead of telling her to cut it out. The bullying was in the form of name calling as I was walking by, making derogatory comments, that kind of thing but she was very aggressive in nature and had already received a verbal warning for pinning another girl up against a wall. I reported the bullying to my superiors who did absolutely nothing. One day it came to a head when she approached me and I turned on her and said, "don't think you're going to be pinning me up against the wall like you did to - - -" We were both shouting and consequently we both got fired. Everyone signed a petition to get me reinstated but the boss said that the altercation had been heard by clients so under the circumstances she didn't feel it was prudent to allow me to come back. The crazy thing is I saw the same girl years later and she apologised. Who knows why people do the things they do? I just know that you have to stand up for yourself or it will continue all your life in one form or another. I'd let the past go Ruthie and start afresh. That friend can't have been a true friend or she wouldn't have stood by and let you be bullied like that. Move on, make new friends but just don't tell them all your ins and out and one thing I learned over the years, never talk about other colleagues, even if others are talking about them, stay neutral, don't give them any ammunition. Perhaps you could consider assertiveness classes?Whatever you do, wishing you all the very best XX
SNP and Greens end coalition deal
Scottish political mess. Is Devolution working?