Age appropriate?

What a lovely thread you started OP! I'm 60 next birthday and still wear much the same clothes as I always have! I do think about some things I see online which I'd love to wear, but "Mutton dressed as lamb" does stop me... but I buy from all sorts of shops as do a lot of you. I browse Ebay and New Look, I like my jeans from F+F as they're a great fit, but my jeggings came from Avon this winter (super comfy and lovely quality) and my fave winter outerwear is a black faux leather/fur biker jacket from Primark!

As for TV, I also love crime dramas, including the indomitable Vera! But I also watch all the talent shows too, especially The Voice. I have a soft spot for Sir Tom and adore Will.I.Am.

Since turning 59, I determined to wear more colours and avoid grey and beige as much as possible. I also became an Avon lady and love experimenting with makeup and "looks". I enjoy chatting to my customers about all the latest trends - they're all ages from 20s to 70s, so I have a lovely group of new friends now too!

I feel very privileged to live in an era where we can really please ourselves what we wear, how we live and have the wisdom to know that everything comes full circle in the world of fashion especially!

Pamaga, I too love Joe Browns - I just wish I could afford it more often...

A thought: yesterday I saw a photo of BBC's John Humphrys in a newspaper - wot a wreck!

But he seems to be perfectly respected and acceptable looking like that. And paid a lot.

Now, if a woman on the frontline of the BBC gets so much as a couple of frown lines.....tut!tut!

Carol 58
I to believe it can be a state of mind and today 's 60 are yesteryears 40. I look at photographs of myself at 60 and see no resemblance whatsoever to photographs of my grandparents when they were 60.

I used to be praised by the younger generation in my last working place before retirement for the lovely clothes I wore - loved telling them that it was yet again EWM!

I like reading biographies and detective stories and older people obviously feature in both, but to be honest at 72 I easily identify with women 20 years younger in books and films/ tv programmes. I don’t necessarily want to watch a lot of oldies on screen - mostly the ones featured are not short of money so have more choices than the average pensioner ( eg the real marigold hotel).
I started watching Celebrity Big Brother for the first and last time! Because it was featuring women to celebrate 100 yrs since getting the vote, and with Ann Widdecombe, Rachel Johnson and Amanda Barry ( ? Barrie) I thought it could be interesting. It started out OK, it was nice to see the younger ones asking the oldies serious questions, and doing a makeover on Ann Widdecombe, but once they brought in some men it went downhill fast.

This thread has given me ideas about shops to try that I've not heard of before.
Aside from clothes, the new Kay Mellor drama Girlfriends is about late middle-aged women dealing with elderly parents and grandchildren. They are younger than many of us but certainly not young and their lives are definitely eventful.

Just wanted to add that I have no problem at all buying second hand, especially from eBay. It's called 'preowned now though. A couple of friends wouldn't dream of doing this and think of it as something people with no money do. They're missing out!

Longhaulgran, you made me laugh but in a nice way. The narrow-mindedness of the young can be amusing. I'm somewhat off-topic now but the best sex I've had was at 60+ (now 64). If someone suggests to me that I should be 'past all that now' they'd probably get a smack.

By the way Farrsan, I love OSKA too.

At 70 I wear jeans (bootleg and straight) virtually every day. Loosish tops ( more closely fitting on thin days (!) and ordered 3 tops from Phase 8 sale online this very morning (15% of sale price). I think we can wear what we like when we like - who made a rule for the more mature woman?
Having said that, I try not to frighten the horses by exposing the less viewable bits of myself!

I have started buying from a design collection OSKA. Not cheap but quality stylish items. The clothes are timeless and look is modern and different and best of all you can absolutely rely on the fit for your size.
I buy a couple of items each season and mix and match. Because of the quality they wash and wear really well.
I also buy second hand from eBay.
I am 66 and have not looked back since discovering this range. Most of my old clothes have now been donated to charity.
Have a look at www.oska.co.uk. Xx

The best advantage (IMHO) to being our age is that we can look how we want and do what we want (murder excepted) and get away with it.

Because we are almost invisible - and that IS and enormous advantage.

I sincerely pity (and silently laugh at) all these 19/20 year olds who seem to think it's mandatory to look like - frankly - tarts!

Be who you want to be.....but I think we have to think 'am I going to look like mutton dressed as lamb'. Don't think its anything to do with age, its attitude. I have friends who dressed and 'acted old' in their 40's. Nowadays I head for M &S, Wallis etc, as they offer stylish clothes without looking OTT (although my moan about them is they don't do skirts etc in different lengths. M & S is one of the worst offenders. So a skirt in a nice bright colour is 'mini'. Why can't these shops offer us an adaptation. After all, who has the most disposable income?

I've just turned 71 and changed my style. I had a Colour Me Beautiful consultancy which helped. I like wearing skinny jeans and tunic type tops, 'age appropriate' or not. My favourite retailer is probably Joe Brown and I have been complimented on JB clothing when I have worn it. I should point out that compliments have come from my 13 year old grand-daughter, young women in their twenties or thirties and from a very elegant French lady who was probably in her sixties. I am not into chiclit preferring crime novels and their audience seems to be cross generation. TV programmes? I love Big Bang Theory, Frasier, Strictly, Bake Off, One Born Every Minute... I tend not to think in terms of age most of the time apart when I get the odd twinge!

Cabbie, I still colour my hair at 72 and my daughter said I should stop. It would be pepper,and salt not that lovely grey so many people,have, my friends said no way. I do have it done professional these days to avoid that all one colour look and ruining bathroom carpets with spills but when I did myself I always used a colour lighter than my natural colour so I had tones, we will know when we are ready to stop.

Im in my sixties have a daughter of 24 we swap clothes I often pinch hers not the tight skinny dresses but tops and coats just wear what you feel is right mind you I do hide those bits that have succumbed to gravity

At 55, I understand what you mean but to be honest, apart from wearing mini skirts I don't think anything is out of the question. A skirt above the knee showing a great pair of legs (sadly not me!) is different to a mini skirt. I think we are conditioned to believe we should dress a certain way at certain times in our life and I say WE should decide what we want to wear and when. I have never been a follower of fashion, if I like something and it looks ok on me then I am happy and we should dress according to our personalities in our personal life, job in work life, occasion (e.g. would't turn up to a wedding in jeans) and stop worrying about what others think about our clothes. The wonderful thing is that we have that choice and we shouldn't let anyone take that away from us.

What is "age appropriate"? I wear whatever I think suits me, and makes me feel good about myself. I wear clothes from White Stuff, Debenhams, Monsoon, the Regatta outlet at our local filling station, Sainsbury's and QVC on the television. I dress for warmth and comfort most of the time, but I do have some stylish items. Shoes I have problems with, as I have a bunionette which is painful.
I have never been interested in magazines, make up or hair products. At 66 my "style" is set. I can't see me changing now.

Indeed - I'm 63 and the overwhelming number of ads and the actual stuff in the shops heavily indicate that the "Yoof" who apparently run the advertising and design worlds reckon I should long ago have turned into Miss Marple, a la Margaret Rutherford......

I shop or look in all the stores regardless of age. Found a great stripy shirt in Zara for £20,100% cotton. So look in them all if you have the energy.

Hilary Boyd writes about older women

That's a good quote, Ninathenana. I strongly don't believe in "age appropriate". One of the better things about growing older is the freedom from all that. Wear what you feel good in, do what you feel great doing, (as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else) and absolutely watch and listen to whatever you enjoy. I think it is one of the better things about life today, - we are much freer than all that old conventional stuff. I'm 80 and I still wear jeans (when I feel like it) and I definitely do not care what people think.

age appropriate Haa, but what does it really mean? I have to confess that there are some things that I really won't wear now (I'm 64) and the one I'm very strict on is skirts/dresses above the knee. My legs are quite good for my age, but I don't want my knees on show, it doesn't look good on me, especially since I'm size 16.
I wear jeans all the time now I'm retired - never wore them before. And a variety of tops, jumpers, tee-shirts, tunics. And cardigans, lovely longer length ones often, in summer shorter light ones.
I buy quite a lot in M and Co, but also lots of other shops if they have something I like. I do buy in M and S, almost all my underwear, pjs, socks, dressing gowns, and coats. My mum bought me a lovely feather and down jacket for Christmas from M and S, and last year for a trip to Iceland, I bought a heavier weight feather and down coat. It's really lovely, looks nice, and is oh so snuggly.

I do agree the shops and media are missing a trick but maybe that is a good thing for us over 60's (well over 70 actually) I was looking at photos of my aunts in their 60's and they look at least 75, not wishing to be age appropriate I wear much the same as my daughters, trousers, tops of all sorts occasional dress and tights, big thing that lets me down is having to wear flat shoes now.

Pittcity, I think that model looks fine in the turtle neck and the check. I wonder what size she is?